<p>Your public library branches should have a college information section. There are usually several books you can check out about many aspects of choosing a college. Find time (eg weekends) to informally visit several college campuses in your area- public and private, urban, small town… Getting used to what various campuses are like before the formal tours will help in knowing what is the same and what is unique about them. Otherwise you may be overwhelmed by the experience of being on a college campus and not realize the similarities/what is the same everywhere and whether it is the college or city size et al that intimidates or feels comfortable.</p>
<p>Your public colleges are good places to find out how things are done in your area- the local norms. You are likely to see students from all walks of life- rich and poor. You should try to see the state flagship/top state schools and the other type of campuses as the atmosphere is very different even among public schools in the same state. </p>
<p>Do not let someone talk you into spending money to learn about colleges- there is plenty of free info out there. Your HS will likely have parent college nights or college and career fairs. Do not let anyone tell you your lack of college experience means your child shouldn’t go for the top school that fits academically.</p>
<p>The interests of HS can change in college. Many, or most, college students will change their major once they enter college. Do not worry about this. Exposure to many different fields not available in HS and learning strengths (and weaknesses) in college means flexibility is needed. An interest in history and science can mean choosing a major in one field and taking several electives in the other.</p>
<p>Do encourage living away from home the first year, even if in the same city. Going away to college as a freshman is an experience that can never be had later. College is a social and personal growth experience as well as an academic one.</p>
<p>Finally- relax and enjoy the process as much as you can.</p>