<p>hey, i just got accepted into the university of pennsylvania, and i am going to go pre-med. Ive wanted to be a doctor since childhood and im so happy that i just took the next step toward my goal! </p>
<p>however, i wonder if college will be any different. i know that premed is the hardest thing you can take, so much studying and dedication will be required. i can do that - that's what i've been doing all throughout my highschool years in order to keep my 4.0 gpa up.</p>
<p>however, i did not have much fun during highschool - while my peers partied and socialized, i was studying for various things. I've never done many of the things my peers have done (still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, etc). By no means am I a loner - i'm actually well-liked by my peers, and i probably could go out and get a girlfriend right now if i wanted but i just dont have the time (i actually turned a couple of girls away because i was so focused on getting into college and stuff, and didn't want to be distracted). </p>
<p>I feel like i just want to relax a little bit in college and maybe have more fun. will that be a possibility if i am taking premed courses? if i am constantly studying for the extremely difficult courses, doing all the extra-curriculars that med schools like, etc, then will i have enough time for anything else? </p>
<p>thanks a lot!</p>