<p>I graduated from Stanford in 2004, and loved every minute of! I think its unfair to say that Stanford is "socially boring". It might have fewer frat parties (there are still plenty!) but there is an incredible diversity of social interaction. From soccer games, to conversations at the dinnig hall's brunch, to band run and Full Moon on the Quad, your entire freshman year is about building friendships with smart, diverse, interesting, fun people.</p>
<p>Stnaford won't make the Princeton Review's top 10 party schools, but for many freshman, weekends involve parties with alcohol. Drink, or don't, no one is judging you. Weekends also involve varsity football/basketball/volleyball/etc. games, study groups, enjoying the sun and the bay area, and events with your dorm. In fact, the dorm expereince is one of Stanford's biggest strengths. Unlike big state schools, you never feel like the RAs are "out to get you", and dorm events are actually fun. You'll make your best friends in the dorm, and for years after you leave Stanford, when you meet other alums, you'll talk about which dorms you lived in.</p>
<p>But the combination of great dorms and expensive real estate means that everyone lives on campus all 4 years. In a lot of ways, that is great and helps makes campus the wonderful place that it is. The downside--no college town, no student area of Palo Alto, and nowhere to get cheap hamburgers at 3:30AM on Friday (unless you know someone with a car and drive to In 'n' Out).</p>
<p>Academics, studying, and your classes will be an important part of your life, but for most people, they won't be everything. One of my favorite parts of the quarter was selecting classes and picking which 4 really interesting things I wanted to learn about over the next 3 months. But you need balance in your life, and you will develop it. And not balance in the "which 5 ECs will look best on my resume" sense, but an inner sense of balance and better grasp of your priorities</p>
<p>Socially, I grew a lot as a Stanford student. If you ask Stanford freshman at the beginning of their first year to use three adjectives to describe themselves, most people will include "smart" or "motivated" or "intelligent". After a year surrounded by other people who share that, you learn to define yourself in other ways, and its a really important period of growth.</p>
<p>So, what's life like at Stanford? It's fun, challenging, diverse, exciting, and maturing, and lots of other really great things.</p>