<p>AnonyMom, thanks for the suggestions. Getting an application in for extended time for math on the ACT and SAT is a great idea. Right now, D doesn't want to either retake the ACT or even take the SAT (she says since that's 1/3 math, she won't do well and wants to avoid it), but she could change her mind later and if she does, the extra time will help. </p>
<p>She knows that ACT/SAT accommodations aren't indicated to colleges, but right now she just wants to be done with math, and unfortunately, she won't have any math junior or senior year. The psychologist said that she really needs a good teacher to succeed, and at her school most of the math teachers aren't very good, and some are barely competent. The only thing that saved her last year was that I got lucky in finding a terrific college student to tutor her. She won't even take SAT prep with pass/fail option (an elective at her HS) because she wants to be done with math.</p>
<p>The psychologist was very helpful at our feedback session. She told us about a client she had with a profile similar to D's who almost didn't finish HS because of math, went to the local CC and flunked math, got evaluated and diagnosed only then, and now is an honor student at an elite college. That, along with seeing that she has significant strengths, gave D hope. I just wish I had known earlier. D was in a gifted program where all were expected to take Algebra in 7th grade. She should never have been accelerated in math.</p>
<p>This is all so new to me. I didn't know that ACT/ SAT look at the testing psychologist's report rather than any accommodations from the school. She recommended extended time for math, and I'm sure she would request that for D. Unfortunately, D really disliked getting pulled out to take her math test in another room, so much that she decided to take the final exam with the class (she finished the exam, but admitted she was the only one who needed the entire time).</p>
<p>D is still adjusting to the diagnosis. The psychologist suggested she come in, without me, to talk about it, and I'm trying to convince her to go. Hopefully she will go. She did like how the psychologist said no more math unless D chose to take it (more because of the stress level than anything else) and thought that D should focus on her strengths in languages (she will have no math but three foreign languages junior and senior year).</p>
<p>I know D won't want to disclose the NVLD on college apps. She doesn't realize that disclosing it will increase her chances of getting accepted - I think it could make a huge difference, because no math junior and senior year will look awful unless she discloses the NVLD and math anxiety. </p>
<p>Going to college LD support websites is a great idea. Maybe she just needs more time to come to terms with it, and see that knowing this and having the diagnosis will work to her advantage. I just wish she knew other gifted/LD kids and that her school was better prepared to help.</p>