Where can I ED and get in?

Thank you!
I hope to double major in government or peace and conflict studies and women/gender studies or create my own interdisciplinary major.
No budget but hoping to receive aid.
I do prefer a medium-sized school in an urban or suburban setting, but I am not too picky about location nor size. I do hope to attend a private school and I’m not the biggest fan of greek life (although Dartmouth happens to b my dream reach school, indecisive is my middle name!).
My mother has been very adamant I apply to Vandy ED as their avg. UW GPA is a 3.7 and it is SUCH an amazing school, and applying there would still be shotgunning… but I just can’t see myself in what I consider the South… Which I understand is a very privileged reason for not wanting to attend such an amazing institution but I have not been able to see past it and connect with the school. …
Thank you for commenting, it truly means so much.