Have you given some thought to the kind of academic environment you want? A small liberal arts college-type environment vs. a big state U experience vs. a mid-sized school. Urban vs. suburban vs. small town?
As a start, take a look at this list for the LACs: http://www.online-psychology-degrees.org/best/top-liberal-arts-colleges/ I’d check out Carleton, St. Olafs, Macalester and Grinnell. All very strong academically with greater or lesser selectivity. I know Grinnell best since D-in-law is a Grinnell graduate in psych, finishing her PsyD in clinical psych this year. Grinnell offers generous merit aid if that’s important - your grades and test scores may qualify. They also have sub-free housing, so you can both party outside the dorm and then leave the party behind. (Other LACs probably have this as well.) And a strong music dept. I’m sure all these schools also have active Catholic communities that you could join. (St. Olaf’s is probably among the most conservative of these schools with a strongest religious life. Excellent music dept.)
If attending a Catholic university is the higher priority than a top psych program or LACs aren’t your style, take a look at this list: http://www.collegechoice.net/rankings/top-catholic-colleges-and-universities/
There is nowhere in the country that you can’t get to in 12 hours so that’s not a constraint. Unless you insist on driving? In that case, Carleton, St Olafs and Macalester are about 4hrs + or - a bit.
Psych is a very popular major and most reputable schools will have a strong psych dept. Look at the course offerings at each school you are interested in and then check the faculty research interests to see if they match up with your own. To chance yourself, look at the Common Data Set for that school, section C, for the stats of the admitted students. And run the NPC for each school so you know which ones are affordable. Good luck!