I just finished calculating up what my first DDs degree cost and what second DDs degree is costing.
You as a student cannot imagine what a financial burden is lifted when one has minimal or no loans.
The Washington Post writer Danielle Douglas - Gabriel just had an article ‘College loan rates to drop to lowest level in a decade’ - it says undergraduate students can expect to pay 3.76 percent in interest on new Stafford loans (instead of the 4.29 percent). “The rates are only good for loans taken out to pay for the 2016-2017 academic year…Still, rates could top 6 percent on undergraduate loans.” It also says “The interest on undergraduate loans can never go higher than 8.25 percent.”
Honestly, the cost for the degree can be more than what your parents are paying for their home loan, and at a higher interest level.
When you finish school, do you really want to pay several hundreds of dollars per month for many years due to choosing a more expensive college to attend?
Both DDs could have received scholarship to our local university (which has their majors). However due to scholarships at other in-state universities, a college savings plan and a stock account with funds for each of them, they were able to go away to the University that best matched their field, and their room/board costs could be covered.
We also looked at them being able to be employed and be able to support themselves with UG degree. We do suspect they both will complete graduate degrees (one is in a STEM MBA program, so will have MBA one year after finishing UG degree).
I know the advice some of the posters here is sound about their concern for the financial hole you want to place your family and yourself in.
The quality of the student - all the opportunities you take advantage of in any academic setting and how you excel - that will be the product. Not graduating from a particular school, like that in itself is going to open better employment doors and higher pay right out of school. Cream rises to the top.
You don’t say where in NY you are and what kind of lower cost school options you have. If you can commute to local university or CC.
I know a family that has one college student, and he convinced them to pay full price for Berklee School of Music - he is bass guitar musician, but so-so, nothing spectacular. He didn’t apply himself in MS and HS, too much gaming w/o really attending to his education. Wasn’t really preparing himself for college and career. Somehow he thinks that the credential from Berklee is going to take him places. Parents will have ‘invested’ $60k/year. The mom, an educator, was not for it at all. They are cash flowing it or taking loans, IDK. Not a happy situation, and will not have a happy outcome other than the son had a blast for his four years in college. It seems reality may hit him a few years out when he is knocking around at a musician’s life. His father has a retired army pension and is an engineer/CS info networking person who is also being paid quite well. I cannot see the son being happy living a more frugal lifestyle because he has spotty or lower income.
It is like a soccer player/hockey player (you fill in the blank) thinking he is going to be an international soccer star making tons of money.
In many fields, not only having talent/interest/aspiration/aptitude but being able to be a true student in the learning, and being able to translate that into a career where one can support themselves to the level they desire.
A 17/18/19 year old doesn’t have a full perspective - and that is why there is a limit on what a student can borrow w/o a parent signature for a parent plus loan.