<p>Like SoozieVt, but with a twist: our S graduated with the BA from an LAC far away from NYC, double-majored in Theater and Music (two very separate departments). As it happened, his LAC had an open curriculum but he ended up taking a distribution of courses in many departments. He moved to NYC immediately after graduation. He’s been acting professionally for 5 years now and counting. The list of economic and lifestyle sacrifices he makes is long, but he’s centered and very content with his artistic and personal life today. </p>
<p>To the OP: most parents of my son’s acting friends wish their children had majored differently. Join the club and thank your parents for permitting you to major as you wish. You’ll have to make this journey on your own, in terms of their understanding. Perhaps eventually and incrementally, they’ll see the merits in terms of discipline, time management, and other non-acting values of an Acting major.</p>
<p>I can share that my S’s technical skills off-to-the-side have kept him afloat (for rent and groceries). In his case: self-taught skill with a camera has generated a sideline business of photographing theater troupes and doing actors’ professional headshots for pay. He is capable in a foreign language, and I see you have several. This enables him to tutor privately. When he first moved to NYC with his BA, he found a room and 20/hr/week job by working as a “manny” (male nanny) for a wealthy family. This allowed him to audition heavily in his first year. By Year 2 (and you must must be able to handle a LOT of rejection to get to Year 2…), one troupe that auditioned and cast him became his home-base artistically. He volunteered a lot of time on their business development. He has grown along with that company, artistically and to a lesser extent monetarily. He’s now their “Marketing Director” - as well as “Creative Partner” (actor plus). He’s never taken a business course in his life, although if he had I’m sure it would be useful also.</p>
<p>My thought is, if you decide to go the BA with Theater Major route, you <em>might</em> consider a Business minor, but might be equally well-served developing some hard technical skill that will allow you to work in day jobs other than waiting tables. My S has gotten more mileage that way. </p>
<p>Also realize there’s nothing wrong with actors waiting tables. Actors do it because the hours are flexible, the relationship between restauranteurs and stage actors is well-honed in NYC, you can take off for months if you get a part without losing any ground in your day job. Also: actors’ talents in improv, personal charm, physical stamina, timing and (sometimes) handsome appearance all bodes well for tips. That said, my own S never waited tables after graduating, but plenty of his friends did and do.</p>
<p>Honestly I think the hardest parts are: continual rejection until you gain traction and not giving up trying during the first year in the big city. JMO.</p>
<p>Something I wonder for you, with your skills in Mandarin (highly desirable language for NYC) - look into a minor where that can flourish so it becomes your dayjob. Some examples I know: my DIL (daughter-in-law) works with children who have autism. Private agencies in that field need workers who can go into Chinese homes in NYC to work with children and teach CHinese-speaking parents to guide their own preschool children. IF you already feel you could work with special needs children, any specific courses as an undergraduate in Teacher Education, coupled with your Mandarin, might bear fruit someday as a behavioral therapist assistant someday in NYC. </p>
<p>Here’s another idea: while an undergraduate, shoot for whatever it takes to get trained and certified to teach foreign languages. I don’t know if there’s a variant on the TESOL practitioner, who teaches English as Second Language. I do know that just “knowing” a language doesn’t make you a capable teacher of that language. Can you get courses to help bridge that while an undergrad? If so, when you graduate, you might find it lucrative (and flexible enough to go with acting…) to work for a tutoring house in your foreign language(s).</p>
<p>To me, developing your hard/technical skills might be more compatible with an Acting/Theater major after you graduate, as compared to a minor in Business that you don’t care as much to pursue.</p>