<p>Life definetely isn't fair, and that's just how it is. </p>
<p>If you have a great opportunity to work at a world class laboratory with a great professor and learn loads and win some competitions, and you go through with it and work very very hard, in the eyes of MIT, I'm willing to bet it will be a plus on your application, even if your parents had connections. </p>
<p>The truth is that many of my MIT friends on my hall have parents who are connected in one way or another to some or other super advantageous thing. </p>
<p>Also these scientists who these kids are working with usually write recommendation letters that I imagine MIT takes for granted. Afterall, professor recs are used for grad school, faculty positions, you name it, so it's in an academics advantage to keep face with the community.</p>
<p>Also while some parts of that article in the NY Times about the Intel Finalists may have some slight truth, it's just showing the negative side. The good side is that a lot of kids do work very hard. And most of those kids who appeared to just "ride a wave" are actually very smart.</p>
<p>I remember last year at the Siemens Competition national finals, all 12 of us finalists had big connections to famous profs/laboratories in some way or other. But the truth is that everyone there knew their project damn well, many of us came up with our own project, etc. And yes, these projects weren't just tinkering with someone's project, they were full fledged, publish level projects that we designed ourselves. And a LOT of the regional and semifinal level student projects are also self-designed. I know MIT takes this into account because when I emailed them to notify my ranking in the competition, they told me they follow the competition results themselves and map the winners to their applicant pool themselves.</p>
<p>People like to think that your life results should correspond to the amount of work you put in. While this may be true for the majority of cases, at the top, it's wise to remember that no matter how hard you work, how hard you push, and how much you try, there is always a couple people who will work a fraction less, push a lot less harder, and get way further than you. Once you just accept this, then you can move on and do awesome stuff.</p>