<p>My D is a freshman at WashU. When deciding which schools to apply to last year, an Ivy never made her list - she just wasn't interested. She was never worried whether WUStl was good enough for her - it was the inverse. She worried if her mediocre, rural, public high school prepared her for the rigors of a school like WashU (despite being a NMF, #1 in her class, 99% in both ACT/SAT, etc.). She agonized over her decision, and WashU came out on top in the end.</p>
<p>On the car ride home from the airport for Christmas break I asked her, "So, was your decision to attend WashU the right one?" A huge smile came across her face and she said, "It was SUCH the right decision." What had been a somewhat quiet car ride before, suddenly was filled with her excited voice going on and on about much she loves this school. Along with the top notch material she is learning in her classes, she said the most surprising thing she came to realize the first semester is that all the people at WashU (professors and students alike) as so amazing that she has something to learn from each and every person there. </p>
<p>Along with being the most amazing teacher she has ever had, she said her language professor had "incredible communication skills". "When she listens to you, she is completely focused on what you have to say. She never takes her eyes off you and often moves to sit in an empty desk nearby to talk to you face to face." Despite working harder than she has EVER had to work in a class, she said her Chemistry professor was "out of this world". Such an incredible intellect! A random freshman who approached her about being chemistry study partners turns out to have a mind that "thinks like no one my age I've ever encountered." </p>
<p>There is no panacea in terms of the perfect school and Ivy is just a term that people throw around as if it automatically brands a school as the best. If you are interested in rankings, some Ivys are above WashU and some below. My nephew is as smart as they come and is a freshman at Northwestern. He reports that he had good along with some uninspiring professors his first semester. The son of a friend said the same for Unv. of Penn. There isn't a perfect school out there.</p>
<p>When my D visited with her high school friends over the break and they discussed the material they were learning in "same level" classes, D said that what she was being taught was so far and above the material they were receiving she couldn't believe it. When they commented that their class was difficult, she said, "They have no idea - they haven't experience difficult!"</p>
<p>You have to find the school that is as close to YOUR ideal as you can. Washington University in St. Louis was that school for my daughter and it has not disappointed! The campus is stunning, the new buildings are jaw droppingly gorgeous, the food is great, most of the dorms are palatial, teaching is top notch, and everyone she has encountered bends over backward to help you.</p>
<p>As the tired and overly used commercial says:</p>
<p>Tuition, room, board, and fees for 2008-2009 expected to be $49,000 +</p>
<p>The life experience my daughter is having (in class and out) - priceless!</p>