<p>I applied to and got into Wellesley, and it's a real possibility that I'll end up going there, mostly because of (to be honest) the generous financial aid package they're offering me. </p>
<p>I don't actually know much about Wellesley, though. There are reasons for this, so please don't think it's because I'm a completely lazy bum (I'm only slightly one).</p>
<p>I guess my question is ... will I be okay? Is every girl who comes to Wellesley focused, decided? Is Wellesley a place where I can adapt without knowing beforehand what I'm doing? I have no specific major or field in mind, just nebulous ideas (like "avoid calculus at all costs!"). I dunno. I'm kind of a confused seventeen-year-old. </p>
<p>This is exactly how I feel. So I can’t really tell you whether you or I will be alright at Wellesley. But I’ve decided to put my faith in the admissions office (to some degree), knowing that if Wellesley isn’t a ‘good fit’ I can always transfer out and know that I tried. :)</p>
<p>@unicornhunt
FYI, I talked with the college admissions guy at my school and he said that many people really dislike their first year at Wellesley because an entire group of leaders who are used to being the best and achieving the most are all thrown into one school and become a little shocked/peeved that they are not the best anymore. He also said that after that year most people end up loving it and becoming fiercely loyal to Wellesley. I think there is good evidence for that in their excellent alumnae support. I don’t think that <em>everyone</em> in a given class at any school is completely sure of their choice about going there, so you’re certainly not alone. I know I’m not entirely sure about Wellesley, so I’m going to visit in April. I think that is one of the most helpful things to do if you can manage it.</p>
<p>Wellesley encourages its students to explore and keep an “open mind.” The point of the liberal arts experience is to try new things. You have four full years. Think about how much has changed/ you have grown since the beginning (and nearly the end) of high school. Yes, you will change and grow a lot during your college years too. Maybe you will even give calculus a shot :). </p>
<p>While some of your peers may come in with the next four years planned out, there is a very good chance that they will change their mind along the way.</p>
<p>I feel the same way. I think that there will be a lot of people in the same boat so if you find yourself kind of panicking you can always ask and talk to people. I will bet that we’ll all be freaking out in our own ways whether its stress from school work or homesickness. I think once we all get over the initial shock everyone will be good friends. From what I’ve seen you’ll have quite a bit of wiggle room to make choices. I’m not super confident on what I want to do but I’m more than ready to make that leap of faith.</p>
<p>I think a great way to begin making friends before you actually START Wellesley is to join the Facebook page for the Wellesley College Class of 2015. The Facebook members have also been enjoying some animated Skype chats over the past couple of days. My daughter is getting to know many wonderful people, and can’t wait to see them when she gets to Spring Open Campus. </p>
<p>Contrast this with the earlier situation in which she expected to arrive on campus in August and not know a soul. Much better to get a support structure up and going now.</p>
<p>I’m on the Wellesley Facebook page and I got at least 5 friend requests today from Wellesley women. I’m Cassie. You can find me on there =] people are meeting up with other girls in their area for lunch or something of that sort so they can he to know people before they move to Wellesley.</p>
<p>Hi, Cassie. I’m Sara’s mom. Nice to see you here! </p>
<p>There are regional get-togethers hosted by the Alumnae Association that should be a great chance for admitted students to meet. In fact, there’s one coming up on Sunday, April 10th in Berkeley!</p>