I have been following and enjoying this thread and wanted to add my 2 cents
First I agree and the Data supports it, Engineering and Computer science Degrees will make a higher Salary at least the first 5 to 10 years out of College.
However, there is more to life
We have friends who are Nurses that work 3 days a week (12 hour shifts ) and are extremely satisfied with their pay and life balance
Friends in Law enforcement/Fire who are retired in their late 40s early 50s enjoying a nice pension.
Public sector workers with a defined benefit Pension that would take a 7 figure account to generate the income they receive
From my Professional Career, Im not an engineer or STEM major, but worked in Aviation the last thirty years until retiring last year and worked with engineers, mathematicians and rocket scientists throughout my career. In my experience they are great with Black and White problems but its the grey areas that can give them problems.
We talk about HYPS and FAANG jobs but they are the exception
Last Year Ohio State Graduated about 13000, Penn State about 12,000 compared to Harvard about 1600, Yale 1400, Princeton canāt find a number but 5200 undergrads total, Stanford 7000 undergrads total
Now for my kids, every parent wants them to be successful but we want them to be happy as well.
My S21 took four years of engineering in his High School it was a good program leading to industry certifications in Mastercam, Solidworks and Fusion among other aspects of engineering and he found out he does not want to do this the next 30 to 40 years.
He is a Freshman at a State School, FSU, majoring in Political Science/International Relations. He will not earn as much as a engineer starting out but he believes he will be happier. He is also taking steps to stand out against his peers, he is studying his first year abroad in Italy and this summer he will move to Spain for two summer semesters and is already looking for a foreign internship after his Sophomore year.
We talked about his choice of major and he realizes he will probably need to get a masters degree but he is also considering law school
My D23 wants to go into the Medical field, possible Med school, and is in her 3rd year of HOSA where she will be certified as an EKG tech and a medical assistant this year plus taking all the AP Science and Math etc. She cannot understand how her brother loved APUSH, Human GEO. World History and I donāt think hate is a strong enough word for her dislike for those classes.
Everyone is different and has to balance work/life priorities.
I always told my kids find something you like that someone is willing to pay you for.
My passion was Aviation.
Finally, many of us have that coworker who is miserable to work with and people say they are a great person outside of work. (they are there for the money and hate it) Unfortunately you have to deal with them at work.
Rant over