<p>I donât agree that thereâs a disdain for pre professional majors. I think posters who have kids pursuing other things are a bit defensive.</p>
<p>I know I have admiration for engineers, computer scientists and actuaries and accountants.</p>
<p>My only argument is that some kids are not cut out for those fields, and no amount of forcing will change that.</p>
<p>I think there is more disdain for âsoftâ fields as if business and money are all there are. </p>
<p>If we funded college as some countries do perhaps our discussion would be different.</p>
<p>I have difficulty with the idea if the finance major because I do think the banking industry is out of control like during the dust bowl period, but I also think there are wonderful kids going into those fields so nothing against individuals or their parents.</p>
<p>I also think the word passion might be a little silly, but what about motivation? Some kids are primarily motivated by providing for themselves. Nothing wrong with that. I live on Long Island, and itâs not easy to make it here. I really get that.</p>
<p>But other kids are motivated by the need to make the world a fairer, more beautiful, more lucid place. They may discover they have to sacrifice some material well being.</p>
<p>I have always been motivated by the live of literature. I think my own writing has netted under $50K for my entire lifetime. However, Iâve taught thousands of young people to appreciate literature, to write better, and to think more clearly. Sometimes I even share one of my poems with them. No, I donât make them buy a book of my piems.</p>
<p>Everyone tried to dissuade me from getting a PhD in English because the thinking was that there were no jobs and law was a more lucrative field. My parents, who were comfortable and didnât pay for college, refused to help with the one year if tuition required at Columbia (the next four years were fully funded) so I went to state u. Everyone I went to school with is employed. After 30 years everyone is still writing and still lives literature.</p>
<p>I really donât see how I could dissuade my kids from following this path, though of course I do wish they could be richer.</p>
<p>I do earn more than the highest median salary listed.</p>
<p>I do also think that there is nothing more beautiful than a suspension bridge and blessings to those engineers who can design one and keep it from falling down.</p>
<p>(And that goes for all the other things weâre discussing. Iâm too ignorant to appreciate beautiful code, but thank goodness for the amazing minds who created the technology that allows me to write to you from an IPhone.)</p>