Colleges will not care one bit about what your son does before high school. The fact that you are already trying to plan his major and worrying that he isn’t doing what other kids do is very concerning. Let him figure out what interests him! By all means, provide him with the money and transport for him to explore, but stop fretting about college.
These posts are so depressing. Read the linked thread here, maybe it will give you some peace of mind. Advice for incoming middle schooler, yes, middle schooler