<p>My daughter spent a semester in Russia via one of the major foreign exchange groups, living with a host family and attending high school there. I think it helped tremendously in college admissions. But I never would have counseled her to go on that assumption – whether it helps or hurts is going to depend on many other factors: what types of colleges will the student be applying to? what areas of study? what degree of selectivity? What will happen to the high school schedule?</p>
<p>I think students who get into competitive colleges do so when they have strong profiles for their target schools, together with a record that fashions a compelling narrative about who that student is and why that college should admit them. When admission officers speak of looking for a student with a “passion” they are looking for an element of that narrative, and the value of any particular experience along the way may depend on how well it furthers that narrative. </p>
<p>My daughter continued her Russian studies through high school – her class was even a pilot group for a developing AP course - and she applied to competitive colleges with holistic admissions, which had strong but under-enrolled Russian departments. When my daughter arrived at college, the head of the Russian department was assigned to be her advisor – so it’s pretty clear to me that the admissions committee noticed the Russian thing. </p>
<p>My daughter also was an A student who graduated near the top of her high school class, and she had terrific recommendation letters. The time abroad may have helped her in another way - it gave her a reasonably good excuse for weaknesses in math and science. (She could point to scheduling conflicts as a reason going beyond minimum graduation requirements in those areas). If she had been a prospective science or pre-med major, then the same situation could have been very hurtful to her chances. </p>
<p>As to the “privilege” comment, I think the issue is setting, not merely that it is “privilege” to travel abroad. My d. was in a homestay situation. Generally host families in foreign countries are upper middle class by their country’s standard, but in most parts of the world that means a more modest living style than what American kids take for granted. </p>
<p>A common college essay topic is to write about a “challenge” the student has faced, and living with host parents who speak a different language, and attending a school where instruction is in a different language, certainly is a challenge - and one that my daughter chose to write about, in those terms. </p>
<p>Finally: I did not “send” my daughter abroad in high school. I “allowed” her to go abroad (on my dime) but it was her initiative, and one that I made her work for. And when she first raised the idea, I told her that it it could potentially hurt her college chances. I didn’t know if it would hurt or help, so I focused on the “hurt” part. </p>
<p>It was a wonderful experience, and she matured so much in 6 months abroad that I literally didn’t recognize her at the airport when she came home. But it is something that should be done for the sake of personal growth, not for the sake of competitive college admissions. </p>
<p>Obviously, with or without study abroad, a smart and capable student will have plenty of college options, but another equally good outcome might have seen my daughter attending one of the less prestigious campuses in our state’s 10-campus university system. Your kid will have plenty of opportunities as well. But if the top priority is competitive college admissions, then its a risky path.</p>
<p>So perhaps your first step is to think about what your son’s college expectations and goals are. The study abroad will enhance his chances in some contexts, and potentially limit him others.</p>