<p>As your question involves real money, it is important to get the figures at least close to accurate. Your numbers are very low.</p>
<p>Speaking only for California, the estimated cost of attendance to a UC (Berkeley, LA, etc.) is roughly $22,000 per year. There is "Registration Fee" of about $8,000, plus books $1,500 plus expenses $1,000 plus on campus housing of about $11,500.</p>
<p>Private schools are around $50,000 at the time of this post. That is usually tuition plus fees of $37.000. plus books and expenses of $2,500 and on-campus housing of about $10,500.</p>
<p>for practical purposes the differential in cost is about $28,000 per year for UC vs., say Stanford, Pomona, Pepperdine or USC. Therefore the amount you're evaluating here in california is $112,000.</p>
<p>Don't forget that $28,000 is after-tax money in most cases. So your father or mother or both (whoever is bringing home the money) will need to allocate the last $50,000 per year to pay for that difference. Is that something they are willing to do? </p>
<p>In California, that is the debate held in homes every year -- UCLA or Stanford? UC Berkeley or Wellesley? UC Irvine or Vanderbuilt? UC Santa Barbara or Northwestern? UC San Diego or Claremont McKenna? For many families with yearly (pre-tax)income $100,000 - $200,000, the $200,000 pre-tax difference ($112,000 after-tax) simply doesn't make sense in an environment when most families are severely undercalculating the amount of money the earners will be needing in retirement.</p>