OP: welcome. your son sounds amazing and has worked hard.
i found this web site within the last year. (i’m addicted now!) We are midwest - and elite schools are not on our radar. We want to get our kids through college without big loans. We are decent middle income, but not high savings.
after finding this site, i remember last summer telling our neighbors about our “EFC” – everyone was stunned; and it was all new news. Its so different than when we went to college in the 80s at our local flagship. I think we thought that smart kids meant scholarships – but didn’t realize the enormous difference in schools - public and private, what’s offered, rankings, etc.
There’s a list somewhere of all of the abbreviations for this site; that’s very helpful. And there’s tons of threads that tell of kids, their stats, offered scholarships, and their achievements. Very interesting! work with your guidance counselor; but ask questions here as well. collectively, the posters here are SHARP and very helpful.
have fun with your research!