<p>To Auberginebleu - I forgot to post a linke for you:
<a href=“http://www.budgetstudyabroad.com/courses-programs-abroad/abroad_category/month-long-french-courses/”>http://www.budgetstudyabroad.com/courses-programs-abroad/abroad_category/month-long-french-courses/</a></p>
<p>To 24daffodils,</p>
<p>Hi, </p>
<p>Home stays are fine. And for high school aged kids I think they are a great option and agree with you on the reasons.</p>
<p>I only did one home stay, and it was fine. But because I wanted to study abroad a few times, shared apartments were less expensive - sometimes 400 euros less expensive. The cost savings allowed me to stay abroad longer, even though I also had to pay for food.</p>
<p>Also, I had lived in shared apartments with other students and I loved being in an apartment (in Spain, for example) with Korean students, German students, and people from other countries (usually around 3 or 4 other students). I learned so much from them and got to experience all kinds of great food!</p>
<p>Interestingly, in the times I have studied abroad, I never heard of anyone in the home stay families making unwelcomed advances on young female students or treating them badly. The worst I ever heard was not being able to put stuff in the refrigerator, which I experienced in Germany and which a friend of mine experienced in Spain.</p>
<p>I have a hunch that the schools and programs that use home stays do get to know their host families and I would imagine they take consider carefully with which families they place their female students (though I imagine the famiies are fine and would be appropriate for any students, male or female.</p>
<p>Also agree with you on the “role-of-the-dice” thing. Some host families are spectacular, I have heard from my classmates at the time, while others are mediocre.</p>
<p>In any case, choosing a home stay for your daughter seems to me to be a rational and responsible choice - and home stays do have a lot of positives - a family, supportive environment, company, and perhaps a sense of stability and security while abroad.</p>
<p>Many thanks for the kind words! </p>
<p>(Now that I know that people actually read some of what I write here, I am really going to have to cut down on the typos!)</p>