A character with too many interests/goals seeks advice from kindred hearts/others

<p>Note: the gist is, I am trying to figure out what college to transfer to. Any advice of fields to look into is appreciated as well. </p>

<p>For the last several years, I have been trying to find that "perfect college." A campus I like. Professors I like. Peers I like. Classes I like. Unfortunately, or perhaps fortunately, I have a variety of tastes. Thus, a lot of colleges end up fitting my criteria. However, over the last few years, I have established some "must-haves." So, I'll split this post up into a few sections, since it'll be long. </p>

<p>Must Haves</p>

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<li>Must be academically challenging. No exceptions. </li>
<li>Encourages creative thinking</li>
<li>Encourages intellectual discussion/people won't go bananas when someone wants to have a rational debate</li>
<li>Looks relatively good when searching for jobs (more on that later)</li>
<li>Interesting, and equally importantly, <em>accessible professors</em> (many colleges are marked off for this reason). I greatly prefer being able to interact with my professors as well as my peers, so smaller classes are ideal</li>
<li>Close, or relatively close to a major city (a 4 hour drive is fine)</li>
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<p>Now, a lot of people ask what fields I am looking in. The problem is, my interests are not able to be categorized as just "science" or "art." </p>

<p>Here are the things I am passionate about/ love learning about:</p>

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<li>Anthropology</li>
<li>Psychology</li>
<li>Writing</li>
<li>Editing</li>
<li>Teaching</li>
<li>Anything involving the human body (so occupational therapy, physical therapy, the idea of being a doctor greatly appeals to me)</li>
<li>Economics</li>
<li>Engineering (specifically chemical or electrical)</li>
<li>Music (major passion for music, as well as dance- and I am good at both)</li>
<li>Languages</li>
<li>Debating (I am constantly considering becoming a lawyer)</li>
</ul>

<p>Right now, my primary focus is in cultural anthropology because I think that is an area I can have a lot of impact. Medical or biological anthropology both appeal to me greatly. </p>

<p>Personal qualities-</p>

<ul>
<li>Ambitious</li>
<li>Competitive </li>
<li>Insatiably curious</li>
<li>Constantly generating new ideas</li>
<li>Spontaneous</li>
<li>Scattered, unless working on a project</li>
<li>Inventive</li>
<li>Dislikes boundaries</li>
<li>Constantly dipping toes into everything/jack of all trades (which is terrible)</li>
<li>Extroverted </li>
<li>Dislikes being controlled/controlling other people (unless deemed necessary)</li>
<li>Sometimes has difficulty keeping in opinions (working on that)</li>
<li>Individualistic </li>
</ul>

<p>What Other People Will Tell You</p>

<ul>
<li>Know-it-all</li>
<li>Argumentative</li>
<li>Intelligent</li>
<li>Too smart for my own good</li>
<li>Very nice</li>
<li>Very mean</li>
<li>Very polite</li>
<li>Idealistic</li>
<li>Misanthropic</li>
<li>Genial </li>
<li>Runs around with too many ideas in head</li>
<li>Mad-scientist</li>
<li>Sometimes too theoretical</li>
<li>Nit-picky </li>
<li>Obsessed with semantics</li>
</ul>

<p>So, hopefully, even if that information is just skimmed, someone can provide me some colleges to look into. Currently, I am looking at Whitman, in Walla Walla Washington, as it seems to fit my individualistic nature. </p>

<p>Some colleges I have considered: UNC Chapel Hill (in state, cheaper), NC State (same reason, and both have good programs), Harvard (looks good in academic fields, which I am pursuing), MIT (great programs), CalTech (smaller, great programs), Harvey Mudd (unique combination of liberal arts and science, is also academically challenging), Ann Arbor (top anthropology programs). </p>

<p>My apologies for the ridiculously long post. In the event that someone is trying to help me, I wish to have provided enough information for them to use at their own risk.</p>

<p>We know now about the subjective you, but to give meaningful feedback we also must know about the objective you. As loathsome as it is, we need to know your GPA and test scores. Is financial aid important? When I read the information you provided us, I actually thought of Reed College in Portland, OR.</p>

<p>I’ve also considered Reed. Okay, just a warning, my scores are all over the place. The reason I am trying to find a college that fits the subjective me is I know that the objective me will do whatever it takes to get into said college. But without motivation, my grades suffer. </p>

<p>College GPA: 3.5
SAT: 1800 (only time I have taken it) (reading: 680 Writing: 600? Math: 520)
Literature SAT: 710
ACT: 31</p>

<p>I really need to study to improve these scores. My math suffered heavily in middle and high school due to my dislike of my teachers. It was an immature reaction, but I ended up not processing anything. </p>

<p>Financial aid would be nice, but I am still up in the air about it. My family is pretty poor. </p>

<p>So basically: I am middle of the road but have potential to be top of the road. And I am thinking long term, not short term. I don’t need to apply to colleges now. I am more concerned about finding where I want to be than where I can be right now.</p>

<p>It seems that liberal arts-ish colleges with decent sizes (Brown, Dartmouth, etc.) are usually accomodating toward students with diverse and volatile interests.</p>

<p>Well, hopefully the teachers are accessible enough. That is really close to the top of the list for me. Next to extremely academically challenging.</p>

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If your family is pretty poor then you’ll need to look in-state or to schools which have a low cost of attendance. With your 3.5 and a 31 ACT you could get some scholarship $ from Alabama, including UA Huntsville. With those grades and scores you won’t get into any of the other schools you listed (except perhaps UMich but you would be full pay).</p>

<p>As a transfer I think your GPA is generally good. Recommendations will likely weigh heavily.</p>

<p>Your 3.5 is from college work? What kind of school are you attending now? I personally love Whitman College, my S attends, it has many of the things that you refer to as must haves. I’m not sure how much financial aid most schools offer to transfer students, in some cases none, so be sure to check that out. Do you have any interesting ECs and burning passions, sometimes an in-depth commitment to one thing can carry the day. Best of luck!</p>

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<p>I’m prepared to take out student loans for an excellent college- or at least a college I would love to go to. </p>

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<p>Whitman accepts half of all transfers. I also have some very excellent recommendation letters lined up. </p>

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<p>I attend Wake Technical Community College right now (in Raleigh). I do ballroom dance and play a variety of instruments (well). I am also a very avid writer. All three of those things I dedicate a lot of time to (though not so much music, so I would stick to my love of dance, likely).</p>

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The question is are your parents prepared to take out those loans. You are limited to loans of $7500/year as a college junior/senior. It’s lower as a sophomore. Frankly based on the fact your parents are poor they would not qualify for loans.</p>

<p>entpme, I hope your dreams come true, the only caution I have is the money, have a real conversation with your parents. Federal student loans only cover a few thousand dollars per year. To pay the remainder of the costs in loans, you will have to have your parents co-sign, private lenders won’t lend to you without a co-signer; that means if you can’t repay the loans then your parents are responsible. Some institutions may give grants to transfer students, you should carefully read all the financial aid information at the outset. To get financial aid from the school your parents will have to fill out the FAFSA and probably the CSS profiles.</p>

<p>Oops, cross-posted with Erin’s Dad.</p>

<p>To clarify, I posted before I realized that bopambo and ENTPme (again) had already posted (it was a cross-post).</p>

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<p>I’ll be a junior (or perhaps a senior) when I transfer. That is disheartening news. They aren’t tremendously poor. The bright side is, my dad was in the military and I believe I can use his GI bill (but I believe that is only valid for the state I live in).</p>

<p>If your father can transfer his GI Bill (check into that. I was in the military and I was not in the window that allowed that) it would apply to any school, but there are caps on the amount covered.</p>

<p>Have you considered UNC-Ashville? It doesn’t have engineering, nor is Ashville a major city, but it has almost everything else you’re looking for. You would certainly be able to use your GI bill since it’s instate, and the instate COA is already pretty reasonable.</p>

<p>If you’re at a two year school then you really haven’t been exposed to what college can offer. A lot of your list is pretty standard and not exactly unique. If you don’t know what you want to study and want to be surrounded by people with a ton of different passions, you need to attend a Liberal Arts College. Universities, in large part, especially the larger flag ship schools will have your upper level course work so focused and surround you with people who only have that focus while LACs will have you interacting with a lot more diverse group of people.</p>

<p>Erin’s Dad- I will be sure to look into it. </p>

<p>Whenhen- I think Asheville is beautiful, but I don’t feel there is enough diversity in the people (from what I have seen- this could have been abnormal). </p>

<p>Also, I am nearly done with my associates. I used to live about 15 minutes away from COA. It’s gone downhill these last few years, and I actually really like Wake Tech. It is super hard, but some teachers really do make me think about things, which I appreciate. </p>

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<p>Wow, if my list is standard, I am not sure why most colleges seem to have some sort of fatal flaw. Most universities do not have teachers that are accessible enough for me, or classes small enough (I’m talking 10 students tops in the junior/senior classes). I don’t necessarily need people with a ton of different passions, just passions period. Creative ways of thinking. Etc.</p>