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<li>Good to know it, but since buffer takes time, its good enough to just know acid base neutralization.</li>
<li>No; surface knowledge is fine; there is one or two questions are most asking you about the hybridization of a molecule.</li>
<li>If you have the Barron's book; you are good to go if you know all their ridiculous lab setups. Know the color tests, they show up a lot. Know some general colors of compounds. Know some general processes of making common compounds such as distilled water and nh3.</li>
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