<p>Mini, I don't think that what Blossom means is that the money means nothing in the cases of these poor schools. I work on a volunteer basis at a very deprived highschool, and though, yes, it could use money, that alone is not going to solve the problems there. The school did get a large infusion of money a few years ago when some expose was done showing the terrible facilities, outdated books, over crowded room, dinghy, dirty halls. The school was spruced up, computers and books bought, all sorts of improvements, and we are now right back where we were. And the extra money is just sucked right up. I would hung from the rafters to really push for the ony solution that I can see that would work somewhat, which is to integrate this innercity school and a few others with the better suburban schools so that you have a good socioeconomic mix. The only kids who are at this school are ones who have families that do not care, and so no one is advocating for the kids. These families have many problems more pressing than their kid's high school. That too needs to be addressed. </p>
<p>Wilmington, Delaware, integrated their innercity schools with suburbia many years ago, and overall it has been a success. Unfortunately most of us who can afford it would not submit our kids to such a venture. Though the overall test scores and results have been a success, there are kids who were in the nice suburban schools who did not do so well as a result of this integration. As someone whose kids are all in private schools, it would not even be a thought for me. I cannot tolerate the lack of directed attention to my little adopted ones, all who have some issues, at the decent public schools here and am paying to get the best possible education, environment and advantages for them. In a sense, money didn't matter, in that I was determined to scrape it up somehow as I did for my nephew 15 years ago when it was clear where he was going at our city high school. It nearly broke us, but we paid to put him into a catholic school that could address his issues better, and get him away from some of the troublemakers he attracted. </p>
<p>I would love to see some changes for the kids at this highschool, but I don't know where to begin. Could not even say how to spend the money if we got some, how much we need to make a difference, and it seems like they are spending more money getting experts to make those determination than on the problem, and the school is going even further downhill. I do the best I can, in my tiny where I can talk to kids about future education. Someday, it may make a little difference in someone. But these kids would not be able to cut it for a moment at any of the elite school, or even as a freshman at decent public highschools, they are so far behind. College is not really the big deal. They never got a decent educational grounding to begin with. I feel like the schools that your father is running in a third world country addresses the needs of those kids better than anything we have here. I have absolutely no idea what to suggest. They cannot even keep the bathrooms at the school clean and safe. So throwing cash at this problem which has been and is being done has only made some temporary changes. </p>
<p>I also don't think our personal choices for our kids reflect our feeling about those far less fortunate. I don't think sending my kids to the high school where I work, for instance, is going to do a whole lot for the kids there; but is dangerous for my kids. I don't find it hypocritical to put one's children in private schools while seeking answers to the public schools' problems. I do know that the schools are more receptive to changes in some areas where there are still familie in the public city schools but there is that tension that flight could occur if the standards are not shored up. I know that as troublesome as my nephew was at that public school, they were nearly panic stricken when I pulled him out. But the changes needed were just too far reaching and no amount of money was going to make enough of a difference in the two years of high school he had left. He needed a ready made infrastructure, and as much as he hated his freedom being curtailed, it did make a difference for him. I would have loved to have sent all of my kids to the public schools in the city, but for whatever reason, it was not the best option for any of them. But kids whose parents don't or can't care do not have these options.</p>