<p>It’s overly simplistic to make this an issue between “rich” and “poor.” There’s a vast middle ground, of course. And PizzaGirl, I would argue that this is a really big country, and it still won’t be hard for the “top 50” (not that they’re really top, but you know what I mean) schools to find more full pays. </p>
<p>Someone here talked about the priority some families place on education, and the difference between the wealthy who can just write checks for $50K a year out of their cash flow and those who’ve planned for years for this. We are a full-pay family-- our household income would qualify us for FA, but because my parents put some assets in their grandchildren’s name, the kids are “too rich” to qualify for FA. The income from those assets is about enough to pay for 30-35% per year of a private college, and we’re managing the rest from years of saving and from giving up on the vacations and fancier things we enjoyed when they were in grade school. And we expect our girls to work and contribute, and they do. Selfishly, I hope our full-pay status (earned through hard work and frugality on our part and the part of my parents) helps D2 get into the school of her dreams (not that we know what that is yet-- hopefully after our spring trip).</p>
<p>Not for one minute do I regret the sacrifice for a private-school education, and while it is concerning if schools fill up with indolent, obnoxious rich kids, it’s also important to acknowledge that not all full-pay kids are that. My college sophomore earns all her own spending money and cannot afford to live the high life of some of her classmates, but she’s happy and getting a great education.</p>