<p>Stupid question, but is this in the US or is this in another country? The reason I ask is usually in the US with PE there are exceptions. In NJ you have to take PE all 4 years of high school, but they do make exceptions for kids who do ballet (for obvious reasons), have some sort of physical condition or yes, instrumentalists. Usually variances are allowed, but from what I heard outside the US it may not be so easy, the bureaucrats there are even worse then here…and it is unlikely IME in those cases to get anyone to help, they generally have the attitude rules are rules, if friends of my son’s experiences hold. If it is in the US, lay out the reasons why, and if the head of the school refuses to listen, take it to the school board/supervisor of schools. If that fails, talk to a local elected official in state government, or if you really want to try something, pay a lawyer to draft a letter, that generally scares them a bit (again, this is US)…</p>
<p>If all else fails, when I did PE they usually gave us choices. Soccer can be a lot less risky, though obviously you could fall down, get hit by a ball in the hands (though in soccer, unless you want a penalty, you don’t use your hands except if goalie), could fall and break an arm or wrist, etc. It might be possible to get them agree that your kid does less risky stuff, like maybe work out lightly, do running, things that are non impact. Sports like baseball, basketball, to a certain extent tennis, and the worse, football (though usually football is flag football, but there is still a risk), have risks of getting hurt, especially the hands. If there are less risky alternatives, go with that.</p>
<p>And yes, I have been through it, in middle school my S’s school required sports participation and he decided on football, and ended up with a near break of his upper arm (thankfully, not in the growth region), thanks to a moron coach who broke quite a few rules (he came close to experiencing a 34 oz baseball bat, having played football, I know what he did was stupid and thoughtless, and how he handled the injury was unforgivable, my wife threatened to have me sedated I was so furious)…it turned out okay, meant he couldn’t play for a couple of months, but anything you can do to avoid risk, do it.</p>