@mommaofthree - you have certainly come to the right place for some answers. You’ve opened up a lot of ground to cover. I’ll do my best (others will probably chime in), but your best source of information is to read some of the other postings on the general Musical Theatre forum. It’s great that your D is a junior. If she is truly serious about going into MT, this will be a very critical year for her - AND for the family that supports her. Here goes:
Do you live near WSU? If so, you might want to get your D involved with their MAPP program (Musical Theater/Acting Preparatory Program) for high school kids. The administrator of the program is a faculty member of WSU college MT program. You might also consider contacting him directly with some of your questions. Don’t count your D out because of lack of “formal” training or dance background. In some ways she might have a disadvantage, but if she’s got the drive and support from her family she CAN succeed in getting into an MT program. While it sounds like you have two other kids who are in, or have graduated from college, the application process for getting into MT/Theater programs is unlike ANY other admissions process. If you can get help navigating what needs to be done - and there’s LOTS of advice on this forum - I would recommend seeking it out ASAP. If you live in a sports town, it is VERY unlikely that any of your D’s teachers or school counselors know what it takes to make this happen. The MT admissions race is like that of a wanna-be college athlete - on steroids - and without much community understanding/acceptance for what your D is trying to do. Don’t let this scare you. You and your D have the time, but what happens from now through fall of her senior year is critical.
As for getting into WSU’s MT program - the odds are similar to those at any other “audition program” (a program that requires a singing, acting, dancing audition to be considered for acceptance). Here is a quote from a recent article posted on WSU’s Theater Department website regarding today’s aspiring applicants “Currently, students must audition as prospective incoming freshmen to get into the theatre program. Of the 450 aspiring students from around the nation who auditioned this year, only 8 percent were accepted.”
http://webapp2.wright.edu/web1/newsroom/2015/10/08/curtain-call/
Those odds are similar at many other BFA MT programs. Again, don’t let this scare you. Someone has to get in - why not your D? It just means she has to be prepared. Again, lots of advice on this forum. There are also many programs out there that do NOT require an audition to get in. Are you familiar with the differences between BFA programs and BA programs? WSU has both. The BFA requires audition and the curriculum is what’s called “conservatory style” - similar to going to a music or dance conservatory, where the training is centered around learning performance skills, with very little “regular” academic coursework. A BA usually does not require an audition is is more of a Liberal Arts degree that focuses on one of several aspects of theater. At WSU both BFA and BA students can audition to be cast in all shows and the BA students regularly get lead and supporting rolls.
If your D wants to be in a BFA program she will need the drive and perseverance of a highly trained athlete. It is very time consuming, hard work, but for those who live to perform it may be the “only” way. My S is a sophomore and is in rehearsals for the upcoming show Chicago. He is exhausted and occasionally bitter that he is not having the “typical” fun college experience. When asked if he made the wrong choice, or if he wants to change majors/schools he says, “No way!”
As for a guarantee that your D will be employed and happy as an actor - there are no guarantees. For ANY major. People in the theater business often say that if you can imagine yourself as ANYTHING other than an actor/singer/dancer - do that. But when asked if they would do things differently if they had to do it all over again, they say, “Absolutely not”. Girls do have it tougher than boys, here’s a thread discussing the “gender gap” http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/musical-theater-major/1818396-mt-acting-gender-gaps-p1.html
Regardless of what major your D pursues, she may change her mind, or her path may take a bit of a curve along the way. My thoughts on this ( I have three college-aged sons who all are artists of one kind or another) is that we can’t let our adult fears choose a “right” path for our kids. They need to seek out what they love. And if it happens to be a “mistake”, they need to learn that on their own as well. I certainly would not put the family farm in hock to pay for an Arts career for my kids, but I can support them to the best of my ability as they find their way. I also believe that no Arts training is wasted. I have met many adults who say their theater experience made them a better lawyer, doctor, manager, engineer, etc.
Got a little windy there. Hope this answered SOME of your questions. Feel free to ask more. Hopefully the rest of the College Confidential WSU MT contingent will chime in.