<p>ColberTreporT, I said nothing about "heated arguments." But I will be glad to elaborate. Here are two recent posts of yours on other Brandeis threads:
"If your son wants to eventually go on to Grad School, go to Bucknell. If your son wants to just get a job after undergrad, go to Brandeis. Simple."</p>
<p>Are you now going to say it's obvious (to the mature) that the above is an opinion? It certainly reads like a "fact." Because it is laughably inaccurate, I can't help but think you must know it is. That comes across as mean-spirited - especially the smirking zinger "Simple." - which is why I mentioned venom. Seriously, this was NOT "disrespectful?"</p>
<p>"Just be prepared to feel like a minority if you go to Brandeis and aren't Jewish. Many nonjewish people that went to Brandeis have told me that they felt like outcasts, and were often not even invited to certain study groups. Go to <a href="http://www.s%5B/url%5D">www.s</a> tudents review.com and see what people had to say."</p>
<p>First, I believe (have not checked in the past year) that Brandeis is only about 50% Jewish. Second, I did go to that website. For lack of time (and a very slow computer), I skimmed only three schools: Brandeis, Bucknell, and Harvard. (Brandeis actually had the highest ratio of positive-to-negative comments of the three - not that it matters a whit, because it's hardly a scientific sample.) What all three had in common - and I'm going to assume that in this they represent most of the highly selective schools - was wildly divergent opinions. Sites like this (including CC) are a magnet for unhappy cranks who probably would not be satisfied anywhere, as well as for folks who have legitimate concerns about their schools and for those who love theirs. There are crazy, unfriendly, bigoted, selfish, mean students at - hate to break this to you - every school in this country. Perhaps you met some of their victims when you visited, but they will be at your next school as well. (And really, using an opinion board as evidence on another opinion board is getting pretty close to employing circular reasoning.)</p>
<p>Bizymom made very good points. And we are not "rudely attacking" you. We (and, bizymom, I apologize if I'm being presumptuous in speaking for you) were just trying to bring some logic to the table, to point out to others who are considering Brandeis that you were painting a distorted picture. It would have been a travesty to let your comments stand unchallenged; in fact, that's why I finally joined the boards today.</p>
<p>Lastly, and I mean this, truly, as a kind and helpful comment to you, colberTreport: we in the adult world don't have the luxury of making false statements and, when challenged, calling our hearers "immature" for not realizing they were opinions! It would be good for you to get used to making clear distinctions between facts and opinions if you want to function at all happily in that world someday. Meanwhile, it should make everyday life and communication pleasanter and easier for you and those around you. I do wish you well.</p>