<p>“It’s a difficult call, and I feel it would be some sort of injustice to admit the person who had to obtain their knowledge over the person who could gain more from being at that school.”</p>
<p>I think you already know this, but in typical CC fashion I am going to say it anyway. There is no justice in the college admissions game. Top schools aren’t altruistic, they have their own self-interest in mind. If they were really self-righteous, they would admit people who they could help the most. However, the people that they do admit are the people who can both be helped by the school and can help the school.</p>
<p>One other thing that I saw that kind of upset me, </p>
<p>“Most of my conversations, even with people I call friends, start and end around “Hey, how was your day?” “Good” “That’s good” (three hours later) “Well, see you later” Note, the three hours was of silence. So if you can bear with me and understand where my somewhat jaded opinions are coming from, I would be greatly appreciative.”</p>
<p>Is there truly no one who you can have an intelligent conversation with? I know you never said this, but you have indicated that you are frustrated with the intelligence of your peers. This leads me to believe that are having a difficult time finding people to have intelligent conversation with. Yes, I know that there is bad logic in there, don’t blast me for it, but this is just a vibe that I am getting from you. High school is almost over for you so it is too late to take this into account, but what ever college you go to it is going to be important for you to find people you can have intelligent conversation with. This should not be that hard, I am sure that there are plenty intelligent people outside of the ivy league. At the same time though, I have a hard time believing that you could be that intellectually lonely. I would be shocked if you were not able to assemble a group of fiends who shared similar intellectual interests with you. I have a hard time believing that in your whole high school, there is no one who you would consider to be on your intellectual level, unless you went to an exceptionally small high school.</p>
<p>Even it you go to a top school you still need to appreciate small talk. I’ll give you an example of a conversation I had yesterday. It started out with someone asking the question, “would you rather have your mom be a ■■■■ or ugly”. We had a pretty lengthy conversation on the topic. It then changed into who we thought was the hottest actress/singer/model (I’m sure you could tell this was all guys). Then at the end of the conversation we got into a lengthy discussion of what exactly beauty is. If you could not appreciate the meaningless small talk at the beginning, you would never get to the intellectual conversation at the end.</p>
<p>Alright, so you can understand where I am coming from I go to Stanford. I would rather not include this fact about myself on this thread but at the same time it contributes to my point of view. Just because some one is at an elite school does not mean that they are not still college students. We still have stupid conversations, do stupid things and goof off a ton. On the flip side, we sometimes have intelligent conversation. For example, one Friday night a group of us decided that we were going to watch a movie that was essentially Nietzsche’s “Beyond Good and Evil” except shorter and in film form. We then stayed up till four discussing it. However, the same group of us spent Saturday night playing beer pong.</p>
<p>You seem to have this unrealistic notion that elite schools are filled with spontaneous intelligent conversation, but quite frankly, an intellectual discourse takes a significant amount of time and most of us to not have the time to have intellectual conversations on a regular bases out side of discussion sections. And even so, one of my small classes is horrific. The professor unknowingly suppresses all desire for students to participate. Another reason that we don’t always have intelligent conversation is that we spend a good chunk of our day in lecture, section, writing papers, doing problem sets, and reading. To sum it we spend a good amount of time being smart, so in our free time if you think we chose to discuss our rhetorical analysis of [insert famous author here], then you are greatly mistaken.</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong, I love it here, but at the same time, you need to be aware of the fact that elite schools are not the bastions of intellectualism that seem you think they are. Yes, we are intellectually curious people, but we like to do other things too.</p>
<p>edit: wow I did not mean to ramble this much. It is funny how I chose to write this in my free time, seems to argue against my point.</p>