<p>@Shadowkitt
First off, I fully sympathize with you. You want intellectual stimulation, in addition to a healthy social life. Finding your high school quite boring and lacking students who are truly motivated by intellectual concerns, you look forward to become even more intelligent and well-read and hold dynamic conversations and intellectual debates with peers who are just as intelligent and well-read. You haven’t done well in high school because you were not engaged; that’s an explanation, not an excuse. And you crave the assurance not only that you can be accepted to a mid or top-tier private school, but that these institutions will be full of people who truly value intellectualism. Your deepest fear is two-fold: either you’ll only get into Podunk State where everyone drinks and no one thinks, or you’ll get to Harvard and find it’s nothing more than an old boys’ club for stupid, spoiled kids.</p>
<p>It’s an understandable concern, and to your credit you realize that the ultimate focus of university will be your education and betterment. But you also have to realize that once you’re actually there, you won’t care so much about that. You’ll just want to have a good time and you’ll balance academics and social life. The key is to go somewhere where most students are intelligent, and the faculty and academics are stellar. That way, you have the opportunity to avail yourself of intellectual opportunities, even though you won’t always capitalize on them.</p>
<p>As other posters have said, you can’t just look at HYPS. Even broadening your focus to all the Ivies is still too narrow. There are plenty of other schools that have just as many, if not more, intellectuals. You’re right that there aren’t a whole lot of schools where the majority of the student body is at a high intellectual level, but you might find you don’t need that as much as you think. You’re rebelling against the banality and stupidity you experienced in high school; if you go to a decent college, even if it’s not an “elite” one, you will still learn a lot and meet many engaging people. That said, I’d STRONGLY encourage you to consider the University of Chicago. It has a slightly higher admissions rate than the Ivies (on par with NYU, which is a great school if you like diversity and self-righteous pseudo-intellectuals) and they specifically seek out quirky and eccentric intellectual students. Harvard, Princeton, Yale, and Stanford are unbelievably difficult to get into, especially if your grades aren’t perfect and you don’t have good ECs or hooks. The other Ivies are also very difficult to get into, and even very qualified candidates have a tough time getting accepted. Amherst and Williams are hubs of intellectuals, but they’re also extremely selective. Maybe check out some other private liberal arts colleges, like Haverford or Hamilton. LACs certainly have a different feel to them than larger universities, but you may find what you’re looking for. Ultimately, though, don’t worry. There are plenty of schools that value what you’re looking for, and many of them are not impossible to get into!</p>
<p>That said, you can’t get into a school just because you want to (or even deserve to) go there. It’s very likely you won’t get into the Ivies or the other very selective schools you apply to. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t apply! You have to honestly consider which schools you like, then consider which you have a reasonable shot at getting into, make a balanced list of 10 or so schools, apply to them (maybe EA or ED to your top choice if they offer it), and then hope for the best but expect the worst. Don’t succumb to delusional optimism (a fairly qualified friend of mine applied to all Ivies, plus Georgetown and Boston College; he was denied or waitlisted from all but BC) or pessimistic cynicism. And remember, as long as you make your list carefully, you’ll be happy wherever you end up. Your success and happiness in college is based partially on what college you attend (because that controls what opportunities you have), but moreso on what you do once you’re there.</p>
<p>Best of luck,
Peter</p>