<p>My opinion is slightly different on this...</p>
<p>If you are interested in a highly selective college or university, being respectful of an admissions officer's time is really important. If you have general questions, concerns, information to relay, it's a good idea to email the admissions office with your question or update (like, "I recently took the SATs but there is a problem with the scoring - please know that I have arranged to have the College Board send my scores as soon as they are available," or "I recently won X award and would like this information to be added to my application file"). Admissions offices are checking their inboxes daily, printing emails, and putting them in files - your info will get into your file if you email the admissions office with your additional information and put some identifying information in the body of your email (SSN, first and last name, name of high school, home town). Also, highly selective schools usually have an admissions officer "on duty" every business day to answer general inquiries - so call the admissions office, ask your question, and, if the receptionist can't answer it for you (and usually they can if it's a general question), they'll forward you to the "Officer of the Day" who can answer your question. </p>
<p>Last year, I had to have a heart to heart with a college counselor on the West Coast regarding the use of my email address - she was giving it out to every student at her school interested in my school. While doing so is perhaps appropriate if there is a important reason for a student to contact an admissions officer (like, say, to tell them that something very important was left off the application - perhaps the student had mono in 10th grade, missed a lot of school, and had a grade slip), in general, students aren't emailing admissions officers with anything too serious, or anything that would have a significant impact on the admissions decision. One of this counselor's students asked if they could visit campus and meet with me personally, DURING READING SEASON, to discuss his candidacy to the college, and this was after I had met him at a college fair, at a school visit, during his campus visit, and after he interviewed. This student had plenty of opportunities to communicate with me and my office who he was over and above the application, yet was still harassing me. And yes, it felt like harassment. Totally inappropriate and very entitled. </p>
<p>The point is, unless there is really something MAJOR to communicate, I don't think it's really appropriate to contact an admissions officer directly, other than to say a VERY quick thank you for an interview, the time they spent with you at a college fair or campus visit, or something else like that - especially if they have not personally told you it is okay so to do. It's not that admissions officers don't care, for they truly do care about their work and students - it's just that their time is extremely limited most of the time and they try to be objective when making their decisions. Unless a particular admissions officer gives you their contact information directly, trying to curry favor with them through electronic or phone contact can backfire - it's not worth the risk to do it yourself (and certainly not appropriate for parents to do it!!!!). Instead, ask your college counselor to call and ask a question, if it's truly necessary.</p>