Advisor told me to drop the courses since I got an D

I get that going to college with kids isnt easy. My point is that if you really wanted a certain degree I have faith you could do it.

Did you ask about a medical withdrawal?

I completed a degree as a divorced mom with 3 kids working 3 jobs. I dont believe in your excuses. You have to do whats right for your family.

Completing a degree takes mental fortitude. Ive had nursing students without legs, with 1 arm, who are deaf, or going through cancer treatment.

You have a mental block, not a true physical hurdle to getting a bachelors degree.

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Terrific- you have a support animal.

And your response to every other suggestion posters make on your threads is what exactly???

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Perhaps a career in therapeutic socks sales would be a possibility? Or doggie day care?

Find something you enjoy.

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I did not ask about medical withdrawal, have to check that out thanks.

Wow I thought my situation was tough 3 job and 3 kids :open_mouth:

I suggest requesting a medical withdrawal for the current term. This will allow you to then talk with an advisor and perhaps a mental health counselor to try to figure out your next steps. You can do this, but you need help figuring out HOW to do it. Sometimes slow and steady is what wins the race. Ask for help at school, please. It’s there - you just need to find it.

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I don’t think that you have any way around this, except a medical withdrawal. Speak with your counselor about it, and get a note from your doctor. What with Covid, you’re not the only one.

Others have said that your spouse with whom you live and with whom you have children is a practicing dentist - in which case I don’t understand how you qualified for Pell grants all these years, since Pell is for applicants from truly low-income households. In any event, it appears that you have exhausted the limits of public college education grants, so it’s not as if you’re at risk of losing funding from this unfortunate semester.

If you are interested in healthcare, but unable to manage the physical challenges of nursing (being on your feet all day at least during training), there are other fields within healthcare that don’t require being on your feet very much. Look into ultrasound tech, pathology tech, cytology tech, etc. There are many ancillary medical fields which only require a 2 year certification - in your case, since you already have a lot of community college science, you might only need the one year of clinical training to get certified for one of these fields.

You might not have a medical issue that’s causing you to get sick so often. Everyone was isolated during the pandemic. Many people are getting hit with virus after virus once they get back into contact with others, because we all had more than two years without being exposed to viruses. We’ve had wave after wave of viral illness (in addition to Covid) once people resumed contact with one another.

PELL is for low income students.

I agree that you need a complete physical and mental health evaluation because your constant need to boast about the many courses taken over 10 years, at a CC, and why you can’t move the needle towards a diploma, is sad.

Going into a career, because someone you know was able to do it, makes no sense if it is not exciting for you. A career goal is supposed to be something that is exciting, and will work for your ambition, stamina, budget, and life goals.

People have tried to help you but you’ve posted so many excuses on this site, that people are hesitant to believe that you actually want to help yourself. What do you seek on this site? Sympathy? Attention?? Pity? Jibber Jabber?

You’ve received excellent, repetitive, and cohesive advice from people here, at all levels of education and professional training.
Find a career that doesn’t require spending money on 100 pairs of socks.
As the saying goes:

“Jack of all trades, master of none.”

PS: A number of employers require a certain GPA. Satisfactory Academic Progress requires a minimum GPA to stay in school. If you don’t maintain that GPA, you can’t stay at that university. Why are you so determined to avoid university ADVISORS? Consult with them and take all of your transcripts and consider another career that doesn’t involve standing on your feet all day, surrounded by people who are so extremely ill, that they HAVE to stay in a hospital.

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OP- I am rooting for you. But your posts usually only tell half the story or you drop out midway
 so it’s hard to help you.

Find out if you can stay in the program if you only take one class this fall. Find out what your options are for finishing a Bachelor’s-- any Bachelor’s- with what you’ve done already, before your money runs out.

Then get back to us. We can help you figure out a bunch of professional options which will get you moving


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This!

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Sometimes my interests are 3 types of chemistry. Analytical, physical and Inorganic.

I think those can take awhile to learn I already got burned in general chemistry 1 and 2, organic chemistry 1 and 2.

No way :open_mouth: Meaning I have to redo everything over again if I can’t stay at a Uni. Such as the TEAS? They expire every two years the scores, I despised that test, very complex and barely passed TEAS 6 now there’s a TEAS 7 which is more tough. Not a huge fan of a basic calculator and closed book exam.

Which courses did you drop? How can we help you if you don’t come back and answer the questions posters are asking you, i.e. did you ascertain that you can stay enrolled if you dropped three courses this summer and are only enrolled in one class for Fall? And can you afford to pay your tuition for the rest of your Bachelor’s if you lose your aid due to being under-enrolled?

If you can’t pass Gen Chem 1, 2 and Orgo 1, 2, stop perseverating about your other interests in science. You need to buckle down and master the basic material first.

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By burned out I meant I passed with a C grade for those 4 courses.

Sorry for the broken sentences, I can’t be on the laptop all day, have house chores to do.

I say this with love


You need to figure out your priorities. You need to work with an advisor at your current U to get on a plan to graduate with a Bachelor’s as quickly as you can. You need to take a warm look at all the fanciful notions you have of studying physical/inorganic chemistry and put them by the side of the road, bid them goodbye, and get on with your adult life.

I was a horrible chemistry and bio student (ended up with C’s and that was with studying my brains out). I have had a very fulfilling and challenging career- which is also lucrative- despite never having advanced at all in the sciences.

Your interests and your abilities seem quite mis-aligned. And your reluctance to admit that you need to get help from a Dean/Advisor at your college to find a way to salvage your last bad semester (and taking only one course for Fall? How is that a good idea?) does not bode well for you getting set on a path for success.

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Went to the doctor and he told me

I’m always eating greasy food, and never enough fruits and veggies. Low immune system, need to boost it up and don’t lift any heavy objects, that way you won’t feel back pain or back spasms :roll_eyes:

Just adding
nurses sometimes have to lift or move heavy patients
not unassisted, but that happens.

“Low immune system” meaning
what?

Did you have a full physical including blood work etc? Did the doctor you saw refer you to someone who can better deal with immune system issues?

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Blood work came in and told me my cholesterol level is not lowering due to me eating greasy foods, hard to control my self from eating food.

Low immune system meaning getting sick a lot and barely recovering from illness like the common cold.

Exercise from time to time, Hydrate with water and stay on a diet no greasy foods.

This whole world is cursed with diseases and bacteria :confused:

Lifting patient’s what am I Hercules to lift patients, just lifting something I have to go back and lay down to rest.

I have already posted upthread a bunch of health careers that don’t involve lifting patients or coming into close contact with sick people. I could make another dozen suggestions but since OP doesn’t seem to want advice, I will stop


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@napnemeanix, focusing on your health is going to help you complete an undergrad degree and find a career that is meaningful to you.

Your doctor is trying to help you live your best life. You may need the help of a nutritional specialist of some sort to support the changes you need to make. Ask the doctor for some names of people they recommend.

Based on what you have said and what your doctor is telling you to reduce from your diet (you do not need to cut completely, but you need to reduce), you most likely have inflammation that is impacting your day to day functioning, your immune response, and long term health. Research food sensitivities and inflammation and start to make some small changes. A good sensitivity test may help you prioritize what you reduce from your diet.

This is a life style change and not about counting calories. Keeping a good journal or using an app to monitor what you eat and how you feel afterwards will help you identify what is working and not working for you.

The stress of trying to figure out a major and path forward is also going to impact your health. With solid Cs in 4 Chemistry classes so far, a major or advanced degree in that area is not likely. It is great to be interested in chemistry- for now use those interests to heal yourself and maybe find a passion for helping others - there is some cool research out there: https://www.fau.eu/2021/03/08/news/research/invisible-inflammation-in-intestinal-lining-may-explain-food-intolerance/

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I try my best to reply to every post on toast, but not a machine, I get tired and sleepy Z_Z zzz

But I have to look into the specs and prereqs for those career.