<p>Personal experience, my 2 cents:</p>
<p>Eldest S, public high school, within top 10% of class, NHS and other accolades. Exceptional musician (violist) which afforded him opportunities to earn significant $ on an occasional basis throughout the school year and summers that would have exceeded a pt minimum wage job throughout the same periods. This enabled him to continue him to develop musically, participate in high intensity summer music experiences, and still be able to schedule practices and allow the last minute gig opportunity without the hassle of having to reschedule a "real job" commitment to accommodate a far better paying gig.</p>
<p>One summer camp immediately placed him on faculty after his first week, teaching/coaching chamber music to adults, many 2 and 3 times his age. He's now going to be there for the fourth year, enjoying what is for him a paid 2 week summer vacation doing what he loves.</p>
<p>His first real job was last summer, driving vehicles between points for a rental car company that allowed him the flexibility of still being able to get time off for his summer teaching and a fellowship opportunity.</p>
<p>Child 2, D, same public HS, solid grades, top 20% of class, varsity soccer player 4 years. Until her interest in soccer began to wane, used same philosophy, allowing her to participate in soccer throughout the summer.</p>
<p>Her career choice is dogs... kennel management, training, animal behaivor. She got her first job at 16 at a local kennel, and replaced that with a better paying similar job. Throughout high school and summers she averaged 30+/hrs per week excluding the soccer season while maintaining academics.</p>
<p>Both kids are at the colleges of their choice, pursuing career paths that they chose. We require each to contibute a portion of their educational expense, so the net effect is S has more $ in school loans than his sister, as she was able to provide cash to offset her portion towards college. </p>
<p>S has limited $ for personal use while at school, and this has been a four year ongoing issue; D has basically squandered her savings on personal pleasure, with no tangible long term use purchases, but it was her money.</p>
<p>Both kids were gifted a more than slightly used car for their personal use by extended family, and we provided insurance and school use gas money.</p>
<p>Did either benefit from the different employment history? The way I see it, they both got to continue pursuing their respective muse, providing hands on experience in their chosen fields before college.</p>
<p>Did either learn fiscal responsibility? I doubt it.</p>