<p>When I first met my roommate, I thought she was really nice and friendly, but after a while, I found out that... I'm so annoyed by my roommate...to the point that i can't stand her in the same room with me. I can't wait til Friday coz that's when she goes home. I hate Sunday because she comes back.
I never notice I hate ppl who make noises until I live with her.
She ALWAYS makes noises and I love peace and a quiet room.
I hate her alarm that she keeps snoozing for 3-6 hours. I hate her korean dramas that she watches everyday and always burst laugh out loud and that frightens me. I hate when she talks and mumbles to herself. I hate when she keeps walking around the room and the noise she makes from walking around the room. I hate when she eats because she doesnt shut her mouth and believe me...it's extremely loud.
I just really hate living her. Gosh can't wait til I move out of here...</p>
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I hate her korean dramas that she watches everyday and always burst laugh out loud and that frightens me.
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<p>Haha totally understand what you mean.. My roommate is like that too except he pounds the table too. annoying...o.O</p>
<p>Get yourself a pair of earplugs. Seriously! :)</p>
<p>@emucla: Head to Rite Aid and pickup some Hearos Ear Plugs 33NRR :P</p>
<p>@yahooo: You mean _ _ _ is annoyingg??????? I'm telling! :P</p>
<p>You have to cut her a little bit of slack. Some noise is part of having a roommate. Sounds like the stuff you're complaining about is just everyday living noise; it's not like she's throwing a party in your room or playing loud music on speakers or something. </p>
<p>I mean, it's okay to be annoyed (I think we all get annoyed by weird things, especially when we're stressed by schoolwork), but you might have to loosen up a bit.</p>
<p>why not talk to her about it?</p>
<p>my roommate and i are completely different, yet we get along really well. i think it's because we know how different we are and we want to respect each other for that.</p>
<p>it's better than sitting there and brooding, while being completely miserable. :(</p>
<p>yeah, UCLA is a home away from home, but it doesn't mean your roommate can live like she is the only person in the room.</p>
<p>guys...I already got earplugs. They don't work! and they hurt my ears
I have to suffer like this for another 8 months i guess
I love my other roommate tho. Shes quiet like me. She doesn't eat that loud and very respectful and considerate.</p>
<p>And I think my annoying roommate is kinda mad at me too for being "too much" for her i think. She loves the room to be cleaned all the time. She made vacuum schedule in which we have to take turn vacuuming the room every week. And I usually forget to do it. Altho she doesn't act mad or anything, but I can see she's a little ****ed off by that ...that I'm messy in her eyes. If a guy were to see this room, it'd be totally neat and nice, but in her eyes, it is not.</p>
<p>I just hate living with her. Loud Loud Loud even tho there's no party...</p>
<p>I already talked to her about it. My other roommate was annoyed by her snoozing habit too, but she was scared to speak up. Basically, my rm would set alarm clock at 6 and keeps snoozing until 12-3 pm. It really bugged us. So I decided to talk to her and she was a little ticked off by that.
Then we have another problem because she talks on the phone with her bf really loud...and i mean LOUD. I don't know if all koreans r like this, but jeez...it's like shes yelling. And she even talks on the phone when her other roommates are sleeping. She actually woke us up at 4 am because she was talking on the phone.
My other roommate was afraid to speak up about it, so I talked to her about it. But i didn't tell her everything that bugged me. I only told her snoozing and phone problems.
She's already have a grudge against us so I don't know whether to talk about other problems too. I have already been so blunt with her so...</p>
<p>@sooskay: lol, I take that as sarcasm. No. It's just the occasional pounding throws me off. You know what I mean. -__-</p>
<p>Okay, I take it back. That's NOT everyday living noise.</p>
<p>I mean, I don't think the eating loud and walking around part is a big deal (sorry, but I can't imagine chewing can be THAT loud), but the snooze thing and the late night phone calls are totally inconsiderate. Didn't you guys address that in the roommate contract? Maybe you could talk to your RA about it?</p>
<p>Maybe not be so blunt with her? I'm Korean and I most certainly not like that. She just sounds a little spoiled, Korean or not.</p>
<p>I would just be gentle and tell her that you want to talk to her about it instead of being stressed out. Beg her to understand and if she rolls her eyes at you, then you can take it to the RA. If you have done all you could on your own, I think it would be best to bring in the 'professional'.</p>
<p>If you don't have the intention of ****ing her off and just want to make the room enjoyable for everyone, then she shouldn't get mad. If she gets mad... then she just needs to grow up a little, to be honest.</p>
<p>What about purchasing a pair of Bose headphones to listen to music to and trying not to be in your room as much? UCLA has a lot to offer and you can study on campus.</p>
<p>I don't think you should avoid your room if you can work it out somehow. The three of you paid the same amount to live there so you shouldn't have to spend less time in your room just because one of them is super annoying.
(I had a similar problem to a lesser extent--combined with other problems I had with where I was living--and I just moved. It's probably not something most people should resort to, but I love where I live now!)</p>
<p>talk to her, work things out</p>
<p>I see I'm not the only one with roommate issues. Though in my case, its the opposite; he's quiet to the point where its constantly awkward to be in the room. Just talk to her or if you really need a quiet place to study, there are study rooms that you can reserve at Sproul.</p>
<p>wow that is just freaking ridiculous to snooze for 3-6 hours. snoozing 3-6 TIMES can already be annoying.</p>
<p>hey coffeebreak
how come u know about places to study
i thought u dont study</p>
<p>I was cramming several weeks of material for my stats midterm. I studied for about a day and a half. It was not fun. But other than that, I never study lol.</p>
<p>ahhhh sounds like my roomate too!! kindaaa
i don't like her making noises like talking and singing to herself.. and in DIFFERENT fckin languages.... (she's a language freak but she says them w/ really weird accents -.-) i mean i'm trying to study/do wrk and there she is being LOUD talking to her computer (she watches lotsa tv shows) i don't care if she laughs at stuff and if she wants to talk to the tv characters she could do it softly and quietly... but nooooooooo.
i havn't talked to her about that and a bunnch of other things tho haha</p>
<p>i think that grl should at least understand to go OUT of the room when she's on the phone.. that's so inconsiderate.</p>
<p>you sound like the annoying one</p>