<p>@ redeye-
Your husband’s observations are very, very valid, about the cost of doing music and how much support it takes, financially and otherwise, to get to the ‘magic level’, whatever that is. I hear the stories, of the kid who picked up an instrument in high school and got into Curtis, the kid who never did summer festivals, never had a high level teacher, never did youth orchestras outside the school and succeeded, and even granting these stories are true (a lot of these fall into the realm of urban myth IME or are from prior generations) they are outliers, out there on the bell curve and don’t represent a typical experience. Some people without resources, like a family we know with a lot of kids whose family income is not exactly out there, are able to cobble together things for the kids, they are good at finding scholarships and getting aid, but it also takes a lot of work, it takes knowing the ‘system’ and even then, they run into obstacles. </p>
<p>There are programs that are both high level and known for giving pretty decent aid to music performance students, but the kicker is the student needs to be near the top of the heap to get them (and this varies from school to school, some schools do well with aid, another school with the same level of student will only give cursory aid if they think the parents can afford it). The problem with this is the support getting to the level to get that aid brings, among other things, besides the financials of lessons and orchestras and such, there also are the logistics to getting kids to their lessons, which with two parents working can be difficult (city areas have an advantage, a kid living in NYC could get to lessons or a pre college program or New York Youth Symphony pretty easily, thanks to the subway, a kid that has to drive long distances won’t be so lucky).</p>
<p>On top of all that, the entrance requirements have also soared, to get into the competitive and above programs. When you are competing against kids from China and Korea, who have come either from state programs (China) or well off parents who literally spend incredible amounts of effort and money on the kid in music, and also enforcing rigid practice schedules very, very early, the level has risen quite high. It started with violin and piano and cello, but it is hitting the other instruments as well, as the base of students applying has grown. We would like to think that the process is egalitarian, but it isn’t,that any kid with a passion or talent can make it, and for the most part, that isn’t true, with music, especially classical music, Malcolm Gladwell’s 10,000 hours requires more and more effort to achieve. </p>
<p>I think the debt issue is something that affects a lot of kids, not just music majors. With non music majors, a kid may major in something they have a passion for, but then find that to pay off the debt, what they studied simply won’t pay. For example, a fine arts major studying painting, who might have wished to go the curator route, will soon realize how difficult that is, and might end up working in IT or HR management or marketing or whatever, to pay the bills. With music majors, I think the debt issue is that given how hard it is to get into music, and the amount of practice it requires, working to pay the bills and trying to ‘make it’ on the side (where make it in this case is to eventually be able to be a full time musician),is rough, and a lot of the music students I have known eventually end up with non music careers and do music ‘on the side’ (and it doesn’t mean they are not happy or miserable or unfulfilled, many of them are perfectly happy with their lives). Coming out without debt, a musician can afford to live relatively cheaply, and be able perhaps to spend more time on their craft and less working side jobs…I think the concept of no debt is on the assumption that the kid is going to come out and do music full time and try to live well enough to pay off the debt…but it also is in the reality that given that musicians often work various jobs to support themselves, that having to pay for debt and the cost of living in general makes it hard to do, even with a side job. </p>
<p>And yes, in some ways, things haven’t changed. Isaac Stern in his biography talked about how an older wealthy woman in the Jewish community around the temple his parents belonged to basically became his patron, helped pay for lessons, instrument and so forth, and many older musicians had the same thing happen to them when they came from poor backgrounds. However, I think across the board that it was a lot easier to come from middle class, working class backgrounds and make it, if only because the expected level wasn’t that crazy.30, 40 years ago, a lot of students entering conservatories had private teachers, but didn’t do all the music festivals and other craziness, didn’t have anywhere near the practice regiment kids do these days, and made it into pretty high level schools (this by their own admission). These days, on violin or piano, if a kid doesn’t seriously commit to it by the time they are before their teen years, in terms of practicing and seeking out high level teaching and such, they are going to find it extremely difficult if not impossible to seek out a performance career, whereas a lot of kids in prior generations on those instruments could be good high school players and get serious in college…</p>
<p>And yes, music isn’t alone, it is basically what goes on with Athletes these days or ballet dancers. The kids who go to programs like SAB in NYC start very young, and the training is intense, and by the time they hit their teen years there already is a hierarchy there and only the kids at the top make it. In sports, epsecially baseball, parents spend a young fortune on training for the kids, travel teams, AAU national teams and so forth, and the same for other sports if the kid is at a competitive level. The kid playing little league baseball, then school ball with little or no outside training is pretty much the rare exception in terms of making it to any kind of level (to the point that MLB is concerned about the decline in participation of African American kids in the sport and participation in all levels, and in large part is because these days it requires resources a lot of those kids don’t have, so MLB is developing programs to attract kids like this, similar to what they have done down in the Dominican Republic)</p>
<p>The one thing with the music degree I agree with is that most people seem to understand how strenuous a performance degree is (or any music degree) and I don’t think it is likely you will run into people saying “oh, all you did was play music”. Among other things, recently Goldman Sachs, not exactly known for creative hiring, have started going after non traditional candidates and music students were explicitly mentioned in the piece (basically, they have found that the Finance Majors from the Ivy League level schools they routinely recruit from seem more to be pursuing a formula to get hired than display the kind of attributes they want to see) based on the attributes of what their training brings to the table. I can say as a hiring manager there are a lot of ex music students out there, and their degree is respected for the most part, definitely as much as a liberal arts degree might be, and like a liberal arts degree will require training…but things like teamwork, dedication to practice, being self motivated and so forth are well known, so that you don’t have to worry about.</p>
<p>In summary, what this boils down to IME is that for people of middle class means supporting a child’s music ambitions can tax creativity in terms of how to get them to a high enough level to get into a competitive program, and paying for it can be difficult because programs IMO are not offering the aid they once did and it can be a very tough thing to find a program at a level you want/</p>