<p>they both have the same expenses of mortgage, SStax income tax, sales tax, ins, medicare etc.</p>
<p>Just a quick aside on the expenses of those who make above $160,000: the expenses actually increase because as income rises, </p>
<p>a) deductibles decrease - you only get to deduct a decreasing percentage, for either standardized or itemized deductions - and same with exemptions.</p>
<p>b) the ATM (alternative minimum tax) kicks in BIG TIME, to the tune of thousands of extra dollars</p>
<p>c) For the self-employed, the insurance costs are astronomical: we pay over $35,000 a year in house, medical, car, business, life, disability, and liability insurance.</p>
<p>d) The self-employed do not pay the same social security, they pay double, because there is no employer to pay the other half.</p>
<p>e) in our state, state taxes are much higher. While most people don't pay any tax on the first X thousands of dollars, that is eliminated for people making more. All exemptions are phased out so our rate is 400% higher than people like my sister's.</p>
<p>f) for those of us not in the multimillionaire bracket, able to hide money all over the place, our effective tax rate is very high. My sister pays out a grand total of something like 6% of her income in taxes, with a 15% rate on each additional dollar earned; we pay (with state taxes) over 40% on each additional dollar. (and that is AFTER we've paid all our social security - before that, add another 15%!)</p>
<p>g) even regular expenses are often far more. We are charged more by everyone who comes to the house, whether electricians, plumbers, lawn services, etc. ad infinitum, because they look around and assume we have money. It is really galling but there is nothing we can do. Even if we ask around for a reasonably priced worker, they quote us a different hourly rate than our recommender pays.</p>
<p>I am not complaining, and am very grateful for the life I have and the ability to let my kids choose colleges without applying for aid (other than the merit scholarships they have gotten on their own from outside sources). </p>
<p>But things are not so cut and dried. I might add that we hire many people by creating work for them that they cannot create themselves: we do all the marketing, travel, creative work, grunt work to get the contracts, take 100% of the risk, pay all the massive insurance, and then our workers waltz in (sorry!), do the job (not that hard) and go home with a check, which they use to run the economy: that is, pay THEIR taxes, mortages, buy consumer goods, etc. Maybe we should be thanked!</p>