<p>I perceive incidents such as these, that happen in a sequence, instructive. They have the impact of pushing the envelope or testing the waters to find out what’s acceptable to others. </p>
<p>An off-campus party with ethnic themes that portray negative stereotypes could absolutely be ignorance, and viewed by the party-makers as having the intention to be humorous, ironic, edgey satire. </p>
<p>When others object from the targeted ethnic group, they are met with surprise by some participants, who claim honestly they didn’t mean to offend, and might even apologize sincerely. Others at the same party (or, hearing the same jokes…)react with defensiveness, cry “PC” at any objections, and feel genuine anger at the ones who object for spoiling what they thought was fun. </p>
<p>In that second wave of anger, someone puts up a noose, which is a more deliberate and pointed expression of hatred against the people who objected to the first incident.</p>
<p>It doesn’t surprise me that UCSD_dad, whose posts consistently reflect thought, kindness and fairness across ethnicities, can’t figure out why anyone would do the second type of incident. It’s not that his head is in the sand; it’s more that someone who does not hate cannot fathom the mind of someone who does. </p>
<p>I often deconstruct such incidents by comparing them to another ethnicity and see where the lines seem to fall. For example, a party “about” Asian kids where everyone wore tennis shorts and traded equations is unsavory. I wouldn’t attend, I would’nt appreciate it, I’d object to it. However, putting barbed wire around an Asian Studies Center with a sign calling the area an “internment camp” is quite another and compares more to the noose hanging in the college library. </p>
<p>Or, to hit close to home, if someone made a private theme party “about” Jewish kids and people wore blackhats and designer purses trading lame jokes about money, I surely wouldn’t appreciate it, same as the “asian” party described above. If I, or a group of “I’s”
were to state my objection and wake up the next day with a swastika painted on my temple, that’d be a whole 'nother story. </p>
<p>One reason serious people do object to ridiculing jokes or theme parties is not because they are “PC” but because, in experience, they know that one ignorant situation can give license to the next person (who actually harbors hatred) to lash out and do a hateful act. That doesn’t mean the parties and such were hateful in intent to begin with; they were likely ignorant only. Problem is, they create a slippery slope or climate that unleashes a more hateful act. </p>
<p>A lot of folks can recognize and possible forgive ignorance, but draw the line at excusing vitriolic hatred as mere ignorance. In a group of people, some will fall off when those lines are drawn and say, “Hey, I went to the party but that doesn’t mean I think it’s okay to hang a noose, for goodness sakes.”</p>
<p>^PS, I think their surprise is genuine and I hope they learn from the sequence of experiences. Objections to ignorant private jokes, parties and the like are not just “PC.” They sometimes prevent the incubation of much worse expressions and actions, further along the same slippery slope.</p>