Another Vanderbilt vs Duke Dilemma

<p>My son is also trying to decide between Duke and Vanderbilt. I realize this is the Vanderbilt board, which I would anticipate would be biased toward Vanderbilt, but here are the facts in his situation:</p>

<p>1) He likes both schools a lot and believes he would be happy at either place
2) He is majoring in engineering
3) He is looking at the overall college experience, not just the ranking of the engineering schools (i.e. he didn't even apply to MIT, Stanford, or Univ of Texas or similar schools which have stronger engineering programs but are not the type of school he is looking for)
4) He thinks he might be interested in Chemical engineering, which Duke doesn't have, but he is not certain on that specialty and would consider mechanical or possibly biomedical (in which Duke is ranked #2)
5) He plays in the band and likes the idea of playing in college as a non-major. Both Duke and Vanderbilt have marching and pep bands, but Vanderbilt's music program and marching band are superior. He has met the Vanderbilt director and really likes him. We don't know much about Duke's band (except he would get into the basketball games without having to wait--a plus!)
6) He is a strong student and would do well at either school, but we are thinking he might be more likely to "shine" at Vanderbilt (he'd be more "average" at Duke)
7) Vanderbilt is giving him academic merit and national merit scholarships of $22,000 per year and Duke would be full price with no scholarships or financial aid. Duke and Vanderbilt tuition and expenses both run about the same--$44,000+ per year.
8) We can afford either school but we are not sure the Duke "name" and "experience" are worth the difference in cost. Both are good schools.</p>

<p>So, one would think this is a no-brainer, right? Logic and finances say to pick Vanderbilt, and my son says he is leaning toward Vanderbilt (I am sure because of the scholarship.) Well, the fact that he is having trouble deciding makes me think that in his heart he wants Duke, and he has admitted that he just finds it heard to turn down Duke. I love Duke (I went there eons ago) but I also think Vanderbilt is a really fine school so please understand that this is a difficult decision for all. Advice or comments? Please give reasons for one school over the other if possible. Thanks! I will post this on the Duke board as well.</p>

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<p>Speaking as a Vandy parent, I can recommend Vandy very highly. The faculty is extremely interested in your child and his/her welfare. The social scene is what you make of it== you don't need to pledge to have a great time.Our child is a social butterfly and has had a wonderful time. The band is really enjoyable and the music school really goes out of its way to help band students feel at home. It's been a great 9 months for our child and we turned down a lot of almost full rides to attend but in my mind it's really been worthwhile. The workload can be tough depending on your major but just plan accordingly and it will all work out. These kids are very bright and dedicated and we enjoy ourselves immensely when we visit. I'm hoping that our #2 child is admitted but it is getting tougher every year. Congratulations on the award by your son. If Duke is better, it is incremental. Anytime you find schools in the top 25 it is hard to say one is better than the other.</p>

<p>musictoad:
Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I think he is close to a decision--leaning towards Vandy but still won't commit. </p>

<p>Any other insights/opinions on either school will be appreciated! Anyone?</p>