<p>When it comes to guilt? I'm the sort of person who has a horrible guilt conscience. For example, for years I've been ridiculed and taunted and badmouthed for being smart. Granted I officially have an IQ of 150 and do things with ease, but I never considered myself different. Be that as it may, I then came under the impression that it was wrong to be smart. And so now as I feel guilty of being smart, I tend to help a lot of people out, when I could be an ******* more often than not.</p>
<p>Case in point from my rambling, anyone feel compelled to help others out for feeling of guilt?</p>
<p>I do haha. I feel bad for people who don’t get the material so I help them out, until I realize that they’re using me, and I tell them to f*** off. (:</p>
<p>In Elementary School, I tended to help kids out because I wasn’t that social, so it felt nice to talk to someone. Now, I’m like **** you, unless we both don’t get what’s going on for the most part.</p>
<p>I like helping people, it just clears out my mind and confirms what I know [which I am teaching them], and when people thank me it makes me feel… well, helpful :)</p>
<p>But when people ask me for ideas and inspirations for a project or for an essay it can kind of annoy me though, if I think of something good. I’d rather use it myself and not have the whole class do the same thing.</p>
<p>^ LOL. I guess all perfectionists go through that phase. I scrapped my formula about a year ago and couldn’t be happier with a guy that probably would not have met 85% of my criterion. @OP - Sometimes the lack of appreciation I get when I help folks bugs me [eg they feel as if it’s their rights to be helped], but I do it anyway. I figure it’s a win-win situation if I’m able to assist somebody. I understand the material more thoroughly; they get some kind of relative help.</p>
<p>I’m not extremely smart by the common definition. I am just good at solving patterns.</p>
<p>And no, this was not an internet IQ test LOL.</p>
<p>I also had figured out the general idea to Raven’s Advanced Progressive Matrices (from a booklet) a few days before the test, and the rest is easy - just memorization and simple math. My score was probably inflated because I doubt you’re supposed to “practice” with the patterns and such beforehand… :</p>