Apologizing

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>So, I have this friend who's a girl--I'm a guy. We got into this crazy argument the other night, and it turned out it was all a misunderstanding...on my part. I mean, I pulled all this retarded drama and now I feel really bad. How can apologize to her? besides saying sorry (duhh).( We have been really great friends for a while, but I don't want to make it more than that. )</p>

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<p>Give her an "I'm Sorry" teddy bear. Those are insanely cute, and if she's really a good friend, she'll understand you won't mean any more than that. =]</p>

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<p>Wait a few days.
Then go up to her and be like..."<foo>? I'm really, really sorry about what happened that other night. <explain misunderstanding="">."</explain></foo></p>

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<p>teddy bear...ehhh dont know about that</p>

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<p>? It worked for one of my other friends in a kinda-sorta-similar situation, so IDK. =D</p>

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<p>If it was just a misunderstanding, I think she'd understand, and you guys might even laugh over it later. No need to be worried.</p>

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<p>thanks, anything else?</p>

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<p>Take [url=<a href="http://www.americanpartsdepot.com/images/GoatBraces.jpg%5Dthis%5B/url"&gt;http://www.americanpartsdepot.com/images/GoatBraces.jpg]this[/url&lt;/a&gt;] picture, edit it to say "I'm Sorry" at the bottom (with MS Paint, or your program of choice), print it out in color, frame it, wrap it, and give it to her. :)</p>

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<p>^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ha pics hilarious....i second him/her</p>

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<p>yeah, that's cute, but you don't want to take away from the fact that you were wrong. that makes it seem like you're just trivializing the whole thing. girls don't like to be trivialized. they like to seem important and they want to know that you know that you're wrong. </p>

<p>(and i'm not really sure why i'm referring to my own sex in third person.)</p>

<p>just make her a card or something telling her how you feel.</p>

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<p>If it was a romantic thing and you're not interested, definitely do NOT go with a bear...and if it were me I would probably find that trying too hard anyway, but whatever...</p>

<p>So I don't know if that's helpful advice. Give her a few days to cool off, or stop being hurt, orwhatever. Be sincere and genuine and act like you care about whatever you did...if she can tell that you've spent time thinking about it, that should help. Good luck :)</p>

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<p>As a girl who is really close friends with a guy (and had a similar misunderstanding), DO NOT GIVE A BEAR. That is sort of creepy if you have no romantic feelings toward each over. I'd just call as soon as possible and be like, "Wow I'm sorry I was such a jerk. Can we still be friends?" If you guys are really good friends, you'll get past it.</p>

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<p>thanks Anon<em>Person</em>1. yeah I did something like that and amazingly, she was cool with it. kinda surprising how well it worked. wow.</p>