<p>Hello, I realize that this topic, as with many others on this site, is completely subjective, divisive, and ultimately requires a decision from each individual student but I feel compelled to ask regardless. (SORRY FOR THE VERBOSITY!!!!)</p>
<p>I'm 28 years old. I have been back at school at the local community college (CT, Fairfield County) putting in hard work for 3 solid semesters. My goal from the beginning has been to gain admittance into a small, seminar-based, rigorous, intellectually challenging LAC for my last two years. The reasoning behind this goal has less to do with prestige (though, the most rigorous and challenging schools often seem to be the most prestigious) and more to do with the desire to be in a community of learners; being surrounded by other smart, motivated people who love education as much as I do. </p>
<p>As the time draws near to apply for transfer, a very crappy reality is setting in and a dilemma has presented itself. I have a decent shot of being accepted into my ideal school (Wesleyan University in Middletown, specifically). I have worked very hard, earned a 3.99, made great contacts, taken the hardest classes the CC offers, joined the honors program, found meaningful extra-curricular activities (despite working part time at a demanding job) and in general I have sacrificed a lot to create a strong academic resume but the catch is that I am poor. I am financially independent, I am a full time student with no savings and a family that cannot contribute. </p>
<p>So, should I be lucky enough to attend the college of my choice, I would more than likely require large loans to cover the rather insane tuition, even if they gave a generous grant (if tuition is roughly $40k, a $20k grant would still leave me with $20k loan per year just for undergraduate). My ultimate plan is to go to grad school, possibly a PhD program in history and I was under the impression that some schools are better prep for grad school than others. But, since I am not pursuing a high paying career (I want to go into education, likely as a college professor) some people have advised me to go to the cheapest undergrad school possible and hope to get into a good grad school after that. Obviously, this advice is practical but it goes against everything I have worked so hard for. </p>
<p>In your opinion, are prestigious schools worth enormous debts for people that have the desire, aptitude, and achievement but not the money? Is it easier to get into grad school coming from a good school versus, say, an online school like Charter Oak (this was what my transfer counselor recommended I do, so that I could work full time and avoid more undergrad loans)?
I'll stop now, hopefully you all get the gist of my dilemma and all opinions are appreciated. Kudos to anyone who takes the time to read it all!!! Cheers!</p>