<p>haha is it exo?</p>
<p>^If you’re referring to me, then yeah lol.</p>
<p>lol @cultclassic…i know what you mean.</p>
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<p>well, if you know the relationship is going to inevitably end, then there’s no use in trying (if looking for a serious relationship). if you wait until college, there’s a much better chance that it will last, and there’s a better chance that your partner will be looking for something more serious. </p>
<p>plus high school relationships are especially difficult. you both live with your parents, have curfews, need to get parents’ approval, have school right away in the morning, and a lot of hw that’s due the next day. high school relationships have the odds stacked against them. there’s more freedom in college, and a better selection of people lol</p>
<p>and lol i don’t even like people my age anymore. when i get to college, i want to date someone who’s a sophomore or older.</p>
<p>Usually when you’re not searching or looking for someone they just pop up out of nowhere, as clich</p>
<p>I’m pretty sure that I’m the only gay person at my high school so even if I wanted a relationship, there would be nobody for me to have a relationship with. I used to really get upset about it, but for the most part I’m just looking forward to college, when I hopefully won’t feel so isolated.</p>
<p>I never have been in a relationship. For most of my life, I’ve pretty much been prude and had no interest in dating. A couple of guys did ask me out, but I just wasn’t interested-(call me a b!tch). I had a certain guy on my mind, actually, but I sort of ignored it.
I’m a senior now, so I’m not sure if I should engage in a high school relationship- the guy I’m interested in is planning on attending a different college than I am. Long distance relationships tie you down in college…
I’m sure I can find plenty of other potential love interests in college, though.
That might be kinda hard, actually, because I have really high standards. Or maybe I could just live the single life, y’know?</p>
<p>@Puellamagi, I’m sure you won’t feel isolated in college! There is a much larger gay population in general, especially depending on where you go! Best of luck</p>
<p>I go to an all-girls school, and where I come from (I’m an Orthodox Jew) we generally don’t date til college, and even then it’s for marriage. Usually there’s a matchmaking system at that point (NOT arranged marriage! it’s a lot more like blind dating), but while meeting people randomly at college isn’t encouraged, it is a possibility.
I get the feeling that even if I had the opportunity I wouldn’t be dating in high school anyway… doesn’t seem my type.</p>
<p>no. i’m not interested in anyone, never have been, and possibly never will be.</p>
<p>yes, in a complicated one :(</p>
<p>I’ve found people attractive but I’ve never actually wanted to be in a relationship.</p>
<p>It’s kind of difficult finding girls that don’t obsess over high heels and make-up, you know?</p>
<p>Can’t seem to find one that can’t look like herself.</p>
<p>What does it mean to look like yourself? Everyone does things to alter their physical appearance, and I don’t think any particular way a person can look is the “default,” like that one image defines who they are more than the other ones. </p>
<p>If a girl is covered in makeup and it looks trashy, it’s probably because she’s oblivious and doesn’t know how to apply it…I don’t think it reflects a shallow personality in itself, just a lack of skill. The girls who don’t look trashy either know how to apply it or aren’t wearing any, and it’s the former more often than you think. </p>
<p>/end rant</p>
<p>Yes 
I was single for most of high school, and as a senior I’m now in a happy relationship. It just goes to show you that seeking it out Might not work- a girl had a crush on me and made it obvious, and after months of talking and getting to know each other we decided to make it official. I’m glad I never let the pressure of my friends being in relationships get to me; it made my experience a whole lot better.</p>
<p>I mean, I like the Pillsbury Doughboy… :)</p>
<p>been dating a guy since we were 12…weird…</p>
<p>TZK203–hey, check the sexism</p>
<p>What?</p>
<p>Men do not wear makeup (except in certain circumstances), and they look fine.</p>
<p>What’s wrong with women not doing the same? Are you somehow manipulated by the media to look different?</p>
<p>Makeup is an aesthetic product. It serves no other purpose whatsoever.</p>
<p>Deal with it. This isn’t sexism: this is reality.</p>
<p>I’ve been in one, for a little over a year now. I met him totally by surprise one day at work, it’s pretty cute to me haha.</p>