<p>I'm not....and I've never been.
And while I'm not one of those girls who just goes hunting for boys, it would be pretty neat to actually have a boyfriend.</p>
<p>The reason I'm posting this is because I'm in the process of developing a crush for one of my coworkers lol.</p>
<p>So are you in a relationship? Do you want to be? Have you ever been?</p>
<p>I’ve been dating a college junior for a month, but he’s only a year older than me so it sounds cooler than it is. That doesn’t really count as being in a relationship, though…I’ve gone out on four dates with him. I turn eighteen in three months and before this nothing similar had ever happened to me.</p>
<p>Yes I’m in a relationship. This is actually my first time mostly because I’ve had a crush on her since like the third grade. She liked me as well. I was too scared until this past summer to ask her out.</p>
<p>Yes two years this coming month:) I definitely wasn’t looking for it when it started but it has been one of the best things that happened to me throughout high school!</p>
<p>Nope, never. At this point, I don’t care about anybody at my school (I’m a senior). </p>
<p>Firstly, I think it’s a waste when I probably won’t see the person after high school at all and I would rather not have a LD relationship lol. </p>
<p>Secondly, I don’t really get along with most of the people in my grade. Most of my friends were last year’s seniors and currently at school, this year’s juniors. </p>
<p>Thirdly, I’m one of those people who are seen as icy. As in, I treat everyone the same way whether they’re a girl or boy which is civil but not overly friendly. </p>
<p>Fourthly, I’m Asian. 'Nuff said. </p>
<p>Those aren’t all the reasons, but it’s probably boring to read all of those. </p>
<p>It’s actually pretty strange to think of myself ever being in a relationship, but maybe college will change that viewpoint. I’ve honestly just resigned myself to becoming a crazy cat lady at the age of 22 or whenever I decide to get my own place. </p>
<p>I’m not sure if I want to be in a relationship or not. It’s just such a foreign concept.</p>
<p>Not in a relationship right now, never have been. I would like a relationship but I’m not very sociable, not really good with the ladies. I have a crush but I don’t talk to her much.</p>
<p>@quidditchcat it seems to me that your apathy is carrying over into the romantic dept as well lol</p>
<p>i really dont get the argument that high school relationships arent worth it because they wont last. nothing lasts. and it doesnt have to. you just enjoy it while it’s happening for the sake of passing this bleak pubescent stage.</p>
<p>but me, nah i havent ever had a formal relationship. no dinner/movie dates consistently with one person or any of that cutesy stuff unfortunately. it’s beginning to fade it seems in my high school culture</p>
<p>I’ve never been in a relationship, or even been on a date. My friend (who I liked at the time) once asked me to a party, but it was because his first choice couldn’t go and it turned out, I couldn’t either. It was very sad.</p>
<p>I think that high school relationships are kind of cute, but you should only get in one if you’re mature. If you’re only going out with someone because they like you when you know that you would cheat on them if someone cuter came along, then no. Just no.</p>
<p>I’ve never been in a relationship, nor have I ever sought one. I don’t think I’ve even ever hung out with a guy outside of school other than for school-related projects. I have a few guy acquaintances, but my relationships with them mainly consist of small talk. I get along with girls much better… wutevs.</p>
<p>I’m not a relationship kind of girl - I just have a friend with benefits I’m really close with and get to have intimate physical relations with, but without any of that awkward commitment stuff</p>
<p>Stumbled into my first hs relationship this fall ^.^ I really don’t think I was mature enough or self-confident/independent enough for one until this year, honestly. It’s nice because it’s a way to forget about school for a little while and have some support and stress relief that I can’t always get from my friends because they’re busy too. </p>
<p>Unfortunately he’s a junior (I’m a senior) and so thinking about the future SUCKS big time, but I’m trying to just enjoy things in the moment and let things happen as they happen. But it does make things awkward sometimes because I know I’m gonna go to college out of state and ultimately that means we’re going to break up because I’m not doing a long distance relationship. So having a basically set end date to our relationship from the beginning has been rather awkward, but oh well. <em>shrugs</em></p>
<p>Yes I am a new transfer in college and currently engaged. Being far from my family, I truly find the support worth it. Plus, I am able to live off campus with him and brought my dogs! :)</p>