<p>Melsmom, "taximom" was my nickname to myself. But no longer. I have schlepped only two kids (not three like you) who were BOTH extremely active in extracurriculuar pursuits that took us all over the state and sometimes beyond. When the first one started driving, it sure did help. Then last year when the first one went to college, I only had to juggle how to be in one location at a time! Then the second one got her license and that was already a major shift. But two months later she was in a very serious car crash and so my life went the other way, first living at the hospital, then her being confined to a hospital bed in the house, and then her missing a month of school and also not being able to walk for some time and certainly couldn't drive again for a bit. It went the opposite extreme of caring for a kid 24 hours a day who normally was barely ever home and had started driving herself to things. It was quite the year with all those audition trips. And even though the first one was in college, we actually traveled to several of her varsity ski races in New England all winter to see her (it is hard when your kids go to college and you have seen every sport event, concert, recital, performance and then they are far away!) and so my winter weekends were either trips to college auditions or to ski races. I was even in Idaho at my older D's National Championships when the younger one was in the car crash. So, there really was never a dull moment! Now they're both gone and it is a HUGE shift. </p>
<p>We allowed our children to go anywhere to college that they wanted and they chose. It turned out that both wanted the East Coast (not complainin') and one is four hours away and one is six. It is possible for us to go there or them to come here if needed, for a weekend but really their lives are full and so they aren't going to be coming home much but holidays. We can go see a soccer game, ski race, or show/concert, if we want though, and we have. </p>
<p>On the scholarships for theater talent....I did not really realize that these BFA programs gave out all these scholarships until they all arrived and it was a wonderful surprise like you say. Some of my daughter's acceptances and scholarships came while she was confined to a hospital bed and so it really gave something to look forward to and a big ray of light. </p>
<p>I have to say that at graduation, there were two local arts scholarships, one from a family in the community in the name of a deceased parent who was a lover of the arts, and one from our local theater. It was nice at graduation when my D did get this arts scholarships. Since she already had scholarships to college, we let her take these smaller scholarships she won locally and she bought an electric piano/keyboard to take to college so she could still have a good piano as she uses one a lot. And yes, it is nice when there are awards for academics, sports, and the arts. I would never knock sports as both my kids did a lot of them. I must say that our high school valued the arts and so I never really felt that sports overpowered the attention. I realize in some communities, sports are everything. Here they do matter but people are also into the arts, think. It is a small community and I think people are just proud of anything local kids accomplish. On the other hand, nobody at school even knows my D got an NFAA Arts Award ! </p>
<p>I would not worry about the video being amateur as long as they can see what they need to see. I also would not get too caught up in winning an award. As nice of an affirmation that it is, it still is good to simply participate. Not getting an award when they only give them to 10%, is not a commentary on not being "good enough". I know kids at top BFA programs who did not win one. </p>
<p>In the meantime, relish in those college scholarships. That is really great!
Susan</p>
<p>Edit: PS, now this is quite the coincidence....I've been sitting here sifting through papers on my desk as the pile is WAY high and out of control and took a break to read the forum. So, right after I made this post to you, I came across a newspaper page my husband had left on my desk back in April (I know, I know, that is how bad my desk is right now, but then again, at the time, I had a kid in a hospital bed). He has circled this little article/announcement in a paper in our state (not the local community one but a bigger one) that is about my D getting the ARTS Award. I guess the ARTS Awards sent it to papers in the region. So, yeah, I guess there was "recognition" after all. I never would have noticed this. How funny I just came across it after this post inadvertantly!</p>