Asian guys have it harder than Asian girls.

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<p>I’m 5 foot 8…</p>

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<p>Yeah but the majority of guys like curvy girls.</p>

<p>And the obedient stereotype is pretty obvious. In Asian cultures the family aspect of life and female obedience is clearly stressed. It is very accurate in my opinion. Every Asian girl I know would make a sweet wife (assuming they were attractive enough). Seriously, I know a grand total of zero Asian girls who I would consider bit**y or obnoxious in any way.</p>

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<p>Nope. As previously mentioned, most models you see are considered beautiful by other women.
It’s a fairly odd phenomenon in that the whole fashion business is pretty much completely dedicated towards a female target audience. Men don’t really care about fashion. </p>

<p>Therefore models are usually considered beautiful by other women but not necessarily guys.</p>

<p>we are all beautiful in our own way</p>

<p>Be content with who you are. There is no use in dwelling on what others find preferable. Be yourself and do your best, and the rest will fall into place.</p>

<p>Yep confidence is attractive.</p>

<p>yeah confidence is cool</p>

<p>Yeah… about that…</p>

<p>LOL why does this even matter? like honestly race doesn’t need to play a big factor. If you truly love someone for what they are, race shouldn’t matter. Initially I used to think its better to date someone your own race but I’ve realized that diversity is what makes each person unique… so honestly don’t feel sorry about yourself.</p>

<p>confidence plays a big part in of you approach the opposit gender</p>

<p>Yeah, I’ve seen that a lot. There’s also a greater pressure for Asian guys to do well in school and otherwise conform to traditional cultural mores. Dating white girls can be seen as a distraction to these goals, as well as a breach of tradition in and of itself. Whereas Asian girls, from what I’ve seen, are pressured only to do respectably well in school and to remain chaste. I’ve had this discussion a few times with my Asian guy friends, who is currently dating a white girl, and this is seems to be the gist of it.</p>

<p>“Every Asian girl I know would make a sweet wife (assuming they were attractive enough). Seriously, I know a grand total of zero Asian girls who I would consider bit**y or obnoxious in any way.”</p>

<p>um… you clearly don’t live anywhere near where i do! or you don’t know many asian girls… or you don’t know them well enough… </p>

<p>plenty of asian girls i know are b****y and obnoxious and plenty are sweet too. they’re people just like any other people, and each one is different. </p>

<p>and srsly…“would make a sweet wife assuming they were attractive enough”? you seem very self important. that’s not attractive, jsyk. :)</p>

<p>I wonder if all of this applies to indian (not native american) girls and guys too…hmm…</p>

<p>i dont know i guess since india is part of asia</p>

<p>yeah but the culture is different</p>

<p>true culture is different maybe we can have a different thread i dont it doesn’t matter though</p>

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<p>Speaking as a white girl who had a Korean boyfriend, there really is a personality factor at play here. He was very confident and wasn’t afraid to ask me out. He told me he simply doesn’t find Asian girls attractive (to his parents’ horror) and prefers white girls. Everybody’s different. To say that Asian males have it harder because they’re Asian is ridiculous. Self-confidence can go a long way.</p>

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<p>well then, I know I completely shatter these “expectations”. . .</p>

<p>seriously. f___ that culture. It was my own mother who distracted my goals. . .</p>

<p>*** yea, I think confidence has to do with the girls.</p>

<p>problem is, how to maintain that confidence on certain guys.</p>