<p>This is just a kind of informal survey/question that I wanted to throw out there. I hear this all the time from my friends who are also asian, "white girls don't like asian guys." I also am Asian, and I hate the fact that so many of my fellow asian males think that we are not good looking enough to date hot girls, but also girls who aren't asian. What do you guys think of this? I know that there are plenty of asian girls who date interacially and i have absolutley no problem with that. Is it really that Asian guys are appealing to others, or is it just a state of mind that has been created by society. </p>
<p>I've always had the confidence in myself around any kind of girl, white, black, asian, latina, etc, but i know alot who lack it.</p>
<p>um, exactly what do you want us to say? "yes, hot women hate asian males. they ugly n stupid" or "no, hot women love asian males. they sexy beasts"? it's like asking "why are so few black people rocket scientists? are they naturally stupid or does science hate black people?" these questions are meaningless and unproductive. if you are asian and want hot women, go out and get them. if you are black and want to become a rocket scientist go study. it's that simple.</p>
<p>I don't know, from what I see from my brother, he's doing fine. He isn't very sterotypical nerd asian though and we live in a white rural community. He's had a couple girlfriends and girls seem to like him enough. He's not a player or anything...eh, hes just a boy.</p>
<p>Well, I like Asian guys, which is pretty inevitable because I go to a school that is at least 60% asian. The problem is, since I'm only half asian, half white I'm automatically classified as a white girl and so they don't really show interest in me, I mean why would they prefer me over full asian girls. Well, actually a chinese guy liked me but it didn't work out. It makes me kind of sad though that there's all these white guys dating asian girls at my school but I've only seen one asian guy with a nonasian girl. </p>
<p>If asian guys think that all white girls don't like them, then they are totally wrong. They assume this so they never approach the girl and then they're like all frustrated. And if a girl doesn't like you because of your race then she's not worth your time, seriously. I mean why would you want to be with a racist. But from my own experience people have a hard time looking beyond race, especially at this age. I think as you get older like go to college it will get better though.</p>
<p>Actually for Indians I see more guys with nonIndians and girls usually don't date or do date with other Indians. This is probably cuz girls are more protected by their families.</p>
<p>I've dated plenty of white girls (and even one or two latinas). Race shouldn't be a factor, but it is. Many girls' parents refuse to let their daughters date asians, similar to how Oriental parents discourage their kids to date African-Americans or Indians. The best you can do is just work on improving yourself physically: dress sharper, work out, and get a stylish wardrobe with good fitting clothes. Brands don't matter--the fit of clothing is crucial, however.</p>
<p>i'd like an asian guy if they were more social. they're usually really quiet and if they arent, they're extremely cocky and only like asian girls.</p>
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<p>fusiondogg, I have never seen truer words spoken. I am SUCH a stickler for male fashion. Sadly, most asian boys just have DISGUSTING wardrobes.</p>
<p>There aren't asian guys at my high school. At summer camps, I have met a few and have made music with them. Literally, music. As in string duets and quartets and piano/violin duets, . . I'm white. I generally am more attracted to white males, but I have also found mixed race guys, such as Korean/Irish guys, appealing.</p>
<p>Well, in the US as a whole, I think that physical attraction plays a huge part in the 'unpopularity' of Asian guys. They are automatically deemed 'unattractive' because of the media and history and past experiences. My school, however, is quite diverse and accepting, and here, I think it's more of a matter of overcoming the stereotype. Typically, any moderately popular girl doesn't want ANY color guy who's overly studious and cares much more about school than a social life, which is a HUGE sterotype which is commonly attributed to Asians. Unfortunately, often because of parental pressures, Asians (at my school) end up fufilling this stereotype. Therefore, they aren't really a hot commodity. But you will see that the more relaxed and fun Asians are frequently pursued and in relationships, with all colors of women.</p>