Since I had something to do with this thread by identifying that the poster of the YouTube videos was a recruited athlete who neglected to mention this (I did not use her name), I guess I should chime in about the very unusual recent developments involving NevadaJedi.
In my original post I took pains to identify the reasons for my posting. It had nothing to do with diminishing her accomplishments. I simply did not want other kids to be misled to their detriment. In a nutshell: The college admissions process is very opaque. As a consequence, kids and their parents search for any scrap of information on whether they have a fighting chance of admissions at a given school. All of this depends, of course, on the information being accurate and a relatively full disclosure. Unfortunately, whatever might have been her motivation, by not mentioning she was a highly recruited athlete was at best being disingenuous (a term others have used in this thread) or naïve and at worst dishonest. She had to know that being a highly recruited athlete at the very least helped her.
The problem is that by not mentioning the athletic angle, she could lead others who do not have such a strong hook to apply to Stanford when really they have almost no chance of admissions. As I mentioned in my original post, if they apply on the regular round, it is no big deal. In all likelihood they have wasted only $100 and some hours to complete the Stanford supplement. But if they apply early (as she did), then they are precluded from applying early to another school where they might have a fighting chance. And applying early to most schools, especially if it is binding, can make a big difference.
Thus, if she had said in her videos: “I only got a 1700 on the SAT, but I was a nationally ranked athlete who was recruited by Stanford. I also did a lot to raise money for several nonprofits.” In that case, I would have no problem with her video.
When I learned of her identity, I thought for only a Nano second about identifying her by name. After all, people might not believe me if I didn’t identify her by name. But I quickly dismissed that idea. I thought: “18 year old kids do stupid things. She shouldn’t be saddled with this as she might be because the Internet never forgets.” I never identified her by name and neither did any of the other posters on this board–until NevadaJedi arrived.
She might now be saddled with NevadaJedi’s very counter-productive posts. I’m sure that was not his intention, but it has become the reality. These posts did nothing to help her and could hurt her in the long run. Consider the following:
• Someone could infer that she used a professional college counselor. Not a good thing to be widely known. NevadaJedi denies this. Perhaps he is correct, but obviously he would say this. People could reasonably infer the opposite, as one poster already has.
• NevadaJedi writes: “I bet that she will be one of the most extraordinary students on the Stanford campus when she arrives. There is no doubt in my mind that they got one of the best incoming students in the U.S. … I would argue she is one of the most accomplished freshman going into any school in the country next year, all around.” Wow. Where to start. There are about 1,700 students entering Stanford in the fall, how many do you know? Maybe 2 or 3? Probably only one. How can you make such statements? They are totally absurd. It is OK for you to make absurd statements, but why paint her with your statements? Does she really want her future roommate or boyfriend or corporate sponsor to read such drivel?
• Think about her teammates or coach Googling her. Everyone Googles everyone else. Now, thanks to NevadaJedi they will learn that she is the “#1 tennis player in America.” Really? The press release issued by the Stanford team has two players entering next year that appear to be ranked higher. Perhaps the coach messed up. Perhaps the rankings have changed or they are not accurate. But why do you want her to go there? She is a very good tennis player. No one disputes that. No good can come of statements such as, at least at this stage of her life.
There are a lot of other absurd things he said, and I’ve already wasted too much of my time on this issue. The sad thing is that NevadaJedi could have made his points without mentioning her name. He sounds like her press agent.
One poster has already questioned whether NevadaJedi is the student. It is a reasonable question. I don’t think NevadaJedi is the student (my guess it is someone associated with the foundation that has helped her), but I could be wrong. I am, however, confident that NevadaJedi is someone close to her. More importantly, if she hasn’t already learned of these posts, my guess is that she will soon. Consequently, if she doesn’t take action, NevedaJedi’s posts will become her posts, his protestations notwithstanding. Is she were my daughter, I would tell her—no, I would command her—to do two things: First, get this thread (and the related thread) deleted. Pronto. Second, be very careful about associating with NevadaJedi. At best he is a loose cannon. You don’t need that. You’ve got enough challenges ahead in your life.