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Did you study at Berkeley for your undergrad? What course did you finish at Berkeley? Why did you choose berkeley when you don't think it is at par with the best in the nation? I'm just curious because I see your posts all over in this message board contradicting people's beliefs that Berkeley is as competitive and as good as the top provates? If you do not think berkeley is as good as the other elite privates, why did you study at berkeley for undergrad?
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<p>Let me say this. First off, your questioning presumes that everybody has free choice to attend whatever school they want. Come on, you know that's not true. The vast majority of people do not get into their first choice school. With the exception of perhaps one school, all schools have a large chunk of students who would rather be going somewhere else, but didn't get in. {That one exception, of course, being Harvard.} Berkeley is therefore not unusual in that sense. </p>
<p>So when you ask "why did you choose Berkeley when you don't think it is on par with other schools", that's like asking why didn't I date Jessica Alba, Charlize Theron, Halle Berry, and Scarlett Johanssen all at the same time? Why didn't I choose to play for the Red Sox? Why didn't I become a huge movie star? You are presuming that I even had those choices available to me. We all have to work with the choices that we actually have available to us, not the choices we wish we had. Like I said, a lot of Berkeley students choose Berkeley because they thought it was best choice of all of the available choices they had. I don't consider that particularly unusual - students at most schools choose those schools because it was the best choice of all the available choices they had. A lot of students at UCDavis or UCSC wish they were going to Berkeley, but didn't get in. </p>
<p>But even if you do actually have many choices available to you, that doesn't mean that you will always choose "correctly" (where "correctly" means that in the future, you will still agree with the choices you made). You live and learn. As you get older, you learn more about what really matters and what doesn't. </p>
<p>I'll put it to you this way. My grandfather was a heavy smoker. And he always used to tell me not to smoke. So one might ask - why did he become a smoker himself? The answer is simple. When he took up smoking, he was just a stupid kid who didn't know any better. And later in life, he found that he couldn't stop. </p>
<p>Now, obviously I'm not equating Berkeley to smoking, but what I am saying is that as you get older, you develop a better understanding of what's really going on. Nobody's perfect. I am quite certain that everybody here has done something in their lives that they wished they could do differently. </p>
<p>Besides, think of it this way. The * whole point * of getting an education is to learn new things and new ways of thinking. And when you learn, you will inevitably change your mind about certain things - you no longer believe things that you used to believe, and you believe certain things that you didn't used to believe. That's what happens when you develop a better understanding of the world. </p>
<p>I'll put it to you even more bluntly. If you already know everything, and there is nothing left for you to learn, then why even bother to get educated? Why even go to college? The whole point of any college, including Berkeley, is to arm you with a better understanding of the world than you had when you started. That better understanding inevitably means a changed mindset and set of opinions. A 22 year old college graduate who thinks in exactly the same manner as he did as an 18 year old incoming freshman might as well not have gone to college at all, as he basically just wasted 4 years of his life. </p>
<p>Hence, having said that, if I knew back then what I know now, certainly, my choices might have been different. Like I said, I think that everybody has done something in their past that they now wished they hadn't done. But the past is the past. You can't change the past. All you can do is help others as they make their choices in life.</p>