Oldchief;
I agree with you there are two sides (at least) to every unhappy story. Certainly recruits and their parents want to hear good news, and coaches have a fine line to walk. In the end, the Admissions office makes admissions decisions. Full stop. I also agree with you that Haverford is not a “last resort” as a school in other respects. That was my son’s club coach’s phrase based on his personal experience with lacrosse recruits. Nevertheless, from personal conversations over the course of two years on the recruiting trail at various NESCAC and other D III schools of similar caliber, Haverford’s name kept coming up and the message was the same: beware.
My connection to the Haverford admissions process is simply this: my son looked at about a dozen colleges of which Haverford was one. The Haverford coach saw him play and actively recruited him for about nine months. He took my son’s file to admissions in June for an early read. The feedback from admissions was highly favorable. My son toured the campus and met the coach. The coach asked him to apply ED. Around the same time his first choice school also recruited him and that was his only college application. It worked out fine for all concerned.
I have nothing against Haverford and I don’t know the coach. In fact, I encouraged my son to take a hard look at the college based on its reputation. There are no grapes to sour and no ax to grind. This thread started as a warning to athletic recruits at Haverford two years ago. From what I heard in my travels on the lacrosse circuit that advice may still have merit. There is nothing more to my original post than that.