Like Kelly30blue my son turned down his 3 appts to the service academies (USAF, WP, USNA) for an ivy education. He was also awarded a ROTC sholie to attend MIT after receiving his EA admittance to MIT. He was also awarded another ROTC scholie to an ivy which he turned down due to the aid he received from the institution and outside scholies to cover his COA without the ROTC scholarship.
It was the day before decision day and he was down to West Point and the ivy. He was very torn. One of the hardest he had to make for himself. MIT was not in the running, just West Point although USNA was also close.
The point of this info was the service academies in our family’s view was the strongest competition for a tippy top ivy. And he still questions his decision to this day. So much so that his brother applied the very next year and also received appts to the same 3 academies. And as it was his desire to fly he chose Annapolis. He had participated in some summer programs at Embry Riddle in Az so knew what that would look like. His first instinct was to attend USAFA but USNA offered some other options besides flying.
Do NOT think your daughter would not be competitive for the academies. They are looking for strong math scores on SAT, leadership, athletic ability but not superstar. They want team players who play well with others, can give and take an order, and understand the concept of service. They are NOT specifically looking for pilots but rather military officers.
And yes, the application process is lengthy and arduous but not impossible.
An appointment is sought, not an acceptance. There are physical requirements, eyesight, health, behavioral, security clearance, academics and leadership. A congressman, senator, vp or presidential LOR is needed. Like I said, not for the faint of heart. But that is part of the screening, they are looking for those willing to serve. And if need be make the ultimate sacrifice.
USNA is not just a boat school, and West point has graduated many presidents. It can and will change your daughter’s life. ROTC is another fantastic option which my boys also pursued. But there is something to be said for being a ring knocker.
As for becoming a naval aviator getting in isn’t the end, rather the beginning of courses, exams, tests, crazy summer blocks…four long years before you even are eligible for pilot training. You can go up during summers but washing out happens in pilot training. Son’s first summer was out to the John C Stennis with the squadrons stationed on it.
Your daughter has options, educate yourself and her and know that the academies are a FANTASTIC option. The Coast Guard Academy also offers pilot options. And maybe the merchant marine but have not looked at that one lately.
Good luck.