Back and forth

<p>Daughter got into several places all very different. Barnard, Wellesley, Emory, and a fine state school. Liked every place for a different reason. Likes sciences and arts equally. Maybe wants to go to med school. Does not want to pull a lot of overnighters. My son goes to top LAC and overnighters are common. This is not her. Emory and U of F may avoid overnighters and allow a little more fun. I went to an Ivy and remember some pretty anxious times.
Any one else struggle between the big names and not so big names?</p>

<p>My D, who graduated from Barnard in 2009, did not pull any “overnighters” at all, I believe. Did she work hard? YES. Did she enjoy her time in NYC? YES!!</p>

<p>U of F (I guess you mean University of Florida) will offer many things that the other schools on this list will not…mainly those things affiliated with College Football!! Only you and your D have any clue how that will affect her (either for good or ill) during her college career. </p>

<p>If she really likes Emory, maybe she shoots for that for med school and goes somewhere else for undergrad?</p>

<p>Just my random thoughts on the matter. Good luck to her in making the decision!</p>

<p>Any overnighters needed are the result of the student’s procrastination.</p>

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<p>Swarthmore librarys are quite lit up in the wee hours and these kids are as serious as it gets.</p>

<p>Anyway she made her choice and it looks like there are no football games in her near future.</p>

<p>Congratulations! How was your daughter informed by Barnard?</p>

<p>Has anyone heard or been taken off the wait list for the Class of 2017 for Barnard?</p>