<p>As parents of a violinist we had similar concerns, which were nothing compared to our dd’s own concerns about having enough time to dedicate to her music (she’d been homeschooled on and off before BS, and had plenty of time to practice during the day). She is now in a great school that offers lots of musical opportunity, enough time to practice, and weekly transportation to her regional youth orchestra. Sadly, I can’t recommend it to your son, as it’s an all girls’ school.</p>
<p>Concord has a very good music program, though the practice facilities are a bit dingy. From what we could see during our visit and application process, CA is a place where a serious musician could carve out enough time for practice. I agree with honorarymom that they are not a jock school. They have a chamber orchestra, chamber groups, a professional ensemble-in-residence, access to excellent private instruction, and, with an in-town location close to public transportation and no Saturday classes, easy enough access to NEC (Sat.), BYSO (Sun.) and Longy (don’t remember) orchestral/instructional programs, which are among the best in the country (for add’l fees/FA of course). Longy is the easiest of the three to get to by public transportation, since it doesn’t require a transfer into Boston. However, we were told that there are generally a couple/few kids each year who participate in the NEC or BYSO programs, and that often a day student parent will drive. No guarantees from year to year, though.</p>
<p>As MH said, Choate’s arts concentration is an excellent program. The caveat for a musician is that you have to “audition” for it (through orchestra/practice/ensemble work and departmental observation) during freshman year, so that wonderful 2-hour practice block doesn’t really kick in until sophomore year… At least that is what we were told by the music dept. head. </p>
<p>Exeter has an excellent and broad music program with a few levels of orchestra and chamber, as well as opportunity for solo performance. Serious musicians who can demonstrate their commitment to practicing <em>can</em> get extra practice time in lieu of PE (advanced music practice is actually a PE course listing). A young string-player friend who’s a lower this year said the school is more flexible about swapping practice for certain electives than they appear to outsiders.</p>
<p>Milton, as MH noted, is close to Boston and all it offers. It also has a performing arts concentration, iirc. Many Milton kids commute to BYSO programs, sometimes with day-student parents, sometimes by the T. It’s a fairly straight shot. </p>
<p>Blair in NJ has a good and growing orchestral and chamber program. I think they also have some flexibility for practice, after an initial observation period. I would ask about it, as I don’t remember the details.</p>
<p>Depending on how serious a violinist your son is, I would speak with the heads of the music departments of the schools you are considering. You may find some are more flexible than they appear and some are less so. And the fact that a school only has a small string ensemble is not necessarily a deal-breaker, since it can allow a truly exceptional string player to shine and receive personal attention, as MH’s son’s experience at Thatcher illustrates.</p>
<p>Feel free to PM.</p>