@PetraMC Pitzer way too weird. She probably fits Pomona or CMC best of that consortium but no one gets in those schools from our high school. I appreciate the CA ideas though!
One of my girls after getting perfect score after perfect score in Calc, the teacher said to my husband and I, âI just want to know what she is passionate about.â I can still remember turning to my husband and we both had no answer and honestly, no idea. We also wanted to know. When it came time to look at colleges, the possibilities were endless but we knew she wasnât interested in STEM so much. So, I pointed her to Open Curriculum colleges and by Godâs grace she wound up at Amherst College. Today in that forum I posted an article about the 50 strongest alumni networks and Amherst comes in at #4.
http://talk.qa.collegeconfidential.com/amherst-college/2150828-50-most-supportive-alumni-networks-for-2019-amherst-college-4.html#latest
She found her passion and you and I have crossed paths in some of the Parent forums, so youâve heard me say that she found her people and she finally found her passion there. I wish you the best.
Thanks @Meddy . What a nice story. Iâm glad your D has been so happy with her choice. I agree that alumni relations and career services are very, very important. We went to a Welcome to Bowdoin party this summer and heard over and over about kids getting jobs and internships via Bowdoin alums. Sometimes itâs hard to justify being full pay but, for us, these types of connections are one of the reasons we are ok with the price. Of course, weâd like D21 to also be at a school where the alumni network and advising is strong.
Wake, Denison, Richmond and Davidson all tend to skew a bit conservative if that is a major consideration.
@pishicaca Understood. I visited Denison and Davidson with S19 (and D21 was along for the Davidson trip) and I think the balance of politics is a fit for D21 at these schools. She doesnât want to live in an echo chamber nor do we want her in one. And, when I say sheâs liberal, one needs to picture a traditional suburban young woman. Sheâs not extreme in anything. We live in a suburb with many conservatives and 90 percent of colleges will have more Democratic representation than our town!
My daughterâs friend from college was a sociology/psychology type major. She has a two-year position with a well known organization doing HS college/career counseling.
She has another close friend who graduated with a political science/journalism double major and moved to a major city to work for a political organization.
Her other friend from college was a psychology major who moved to another part of the country to teach HS students on the campus of a top university (also through an organization).
Another close friend from college is spending the year doing research with her liberal arts degree and will apply to grad school.
My coworkerâs daughter graduated from a top non-Ivy school (Duke, Vandy etc) as a liberal arts major. She moved to another state and works for a small nonprofit environmental organization.
My coworkerâs son graduated from a top LAC ( your son applied to this school) as a liberal arts major and now works in a major cityâŠhe will head to grad school eventually.
My D graduated with what is considered a liberal arts degree. She also has a two-year position which will allow her to be self supportingâŠbefore heading back to school.
My point is that these majors/degrees can lead directly to the workforce following graduation. Many of these new grads head to grad school, while others use these first jobs as a stepping stone. I should add that these young adults took advantage of career services, professors, they all had strong internships etc.
@homerdog Iâve discussed the political scene at Wake with S several times over the past two yrs. He would say the professors lean to the left (some of them far to the left - so like any other university) while the students tend to come from a more conservative background. That said, the students arenât necessarily conservative. He would describe them as neutral. There are plenty of groups on campus that you would normally associate with the left and of course thereâs the young Republican type groups. They stress tolerance on campus. S has friends ranging the socioeconomic spectrum, the political spectrum, etc and they all just get along. Most just do their own thing without a hassle factor.
Somewhat related, I know some think of Wake as a rich, southern school. Itâs physically in the south but there are tons of kids from up north. Many of Sâ friends are from New England, NY, NJ, Chicago, DC (and of course the Carolinas). Regarding wealth, there are certainly some very wealthy kids but others receive need based aid. Two of his close friends are a good example. One is from a lower income, ethnic family in Chicago (receives quite a bit of aid). The otherâs dad is a partner of a Private Equity firm in Boston, lives on an ocean estate, etc. They get along great. Theyâre kids!
Your daughterâs current college list is made up of conservative leaning schools even though you note that she is a liberal who is not a sjw, but can get worked up about issues. (Based on her current list of schoolsâDavidson, Colgate, WFU, Richmond & Denisonâshe should visit Dartmouth College.)
Consider Middlebury College and the University of Vermontâs Honors College.
Also, although larger than her current size limit, the University of Virginia may be of interest to her. The College of William & Mary is another to consider.
As your daughter is a rising junior, her interests may change. Also, she may be influenced by her brotherâs experience at Bowdoin College.
P.S. To directly answer your question of âbest way to find school for undecided studentâ, visiting a variety of colleges & universities in different areas of the country may help.
Re: Wake Forest
https://nces.ed.gov/collegenavigator/?q=wake+forest&s=all&id=199847#finaid says 51% paying list price (probably top few percent income/wealth) and 10% Pell grant (probably bottom half income/wealth).
@twogirls thanks for all of that info. Helpful! @rickle1 I think we know what itâs like at Wake when it comes to politics. Honestly, I hear itâs just not a very political campus compared to some others. We know three students there and will visit with them when we see the school. Iâm not worried about it being too conservative. @Publisher S19 was denied at Dartmouth so no way D21 would get in. For the last four years now, theyâve only taken ED athletes (either one or two) and thatâs it. I do think she will be affected by how S19âs Bowdoin experience goes. Thatâs true. Remember, though, that the last two schools standing for him were Bowdoin and Davidson and he didnât think Davidson was conservative or Bowdoin liberal. Neither campus seemed super political overall. I donât know if she would apply to Bowdoin but, if he has a good freshman year, it might make her lean towards a LAC for sure and maybe she would open her mind to some more rural LACs that sheâs currently not interested in.
I think most rural LACs in the northeast will provide the kind of environment youâre looking forâvery left-leaning socially but without a culture of intense activism.
If Colby is too remote, maybe Bates might be a fit.
Regarding non political campuses, thatâs actually better. It means all views get heard across the spectrum. Most faculty lean heavily left these days, however, they generally want viewpoint diversity and free speech.
If the student body leans a little conservative that means generally you wonât see things like deplatfoming, safe spaces and trigger warnings (which most professors donât really want anyway). SJW are only 5-10% of students at most campuses (even left leaning ones) but they can have an outsized influence on campus culture, because administrators tend to cave-in too quickly (eg Yale, Evergreen, Middlebury).
Non political campuses tend to be majority Democratic anyway, but you donât have a walking on eggshells culture where people are afraid to speak out
@Theoden There are certainly colleges that lean very far to the left, but IMHO the âwalking on eggshells cultureâ at institutions has oftentimes been overblown by the media. At the end of the day, a studentâs experience at any college depends on which other students they interact with as well as a collegeâs alleged culture.
Totally agree with @writingpumpkin03 . Friendships, experiences, and growth come way ahead of political line-drawing, at most of the campuses named.
At Bates, D1 was among the more politically active, but channeled this into the local community (including the Bonner comunity service program. And the school promotes âcommunity partnershipsâ of various sorts.) Among her friends were a few so rampantly conservatiove that every time I visited, she warned me to stay off politics. That simple. The kids with decent social skills know how to foster friendships, not paint everything in the extreme or go with value judgments.
@lookingforward I didnât know you had a D who went to Bates. Out this way, NO one has heard of Bates. Two kids from our high school have applied in the last four years. I am warming to the idea of D21 looking at it. It will be near big brother and it checks some of her boxes for sure. How close is the campus to the town? Can one walk?
Both went and both were in the Bonner program (the leader program/comm service, not the Bonner ScholarsâŠ) Lots of folks have heard of Bates and plenty apply from across the country.
You can walk to town, maybe a few blocks. There isnât all that much to do in town. Some great dining and the usual sorts of restaurants kids may want. Or movies. But plenty enough on campus. When they were there, it was very âwork hard/party hard.â A great new president has tempered some of the crazy partying. Tremendous study abroad opps, D1 did two. And a vast array of empowered kids who do go on to great future work. Great support for post grad fellowships and the like. D1 benefitted from career services for building her resume.
Denison parent â I wouldnât describe it as leaning conservative at all but rather as pretty balanced politically with a culture of non-antagonism/non-shaming etc. My go-to example is when Reince Preibus and Jim Oberfell visited campus on back-to-back days, there were not wprotests trying to shut down either speaker but rather both Dem and Rep clubs encouraged members to attend (and they actually did attend) both events to engage with each other.
@ homerdog As a Richmond parent, I disagree that itâs conservative. Our S is liberal, but not a sjw type (that would be our daughter), and never took much interest in politics. This year at Richmond, he actually watched the Kavanaugh hearings with friends (mostly all liberal leaning), something he never would have done before. My belief is that Richmond used to be conservative but theyâve become much more diverse, in many ways (especially given their need-blind financial aid and free tuition to Virginians making under a certain amount). When we were looking at colleges, we utilized colllege factualâs diversity ratings. It was through this tool that we ended up throwing out Trinity (Texas) and Rhodes. For us, geographic diversity matters a lot because of where our kids are growing up. I believe geographic diversity corresponds to issues we care about, such as openness or experience with other beliefs, races, religion, and politics. It doesnât sound like you have this issue, but when you live somewhere where your child is the âotherâ or âonly,â the ability to look at the schoolâs makeup is especially helpful. This would be true even if you just want them to have exposure to many different worldviews.
@havenoidea thanks for chiming in. And, yes, we all think a diverse student body is important - both socioeconomic and geographic. That is one worry about W&M with such a large percent from Virginia.
I think your DD has a great list to start and you are handing this as well as possible. I wonât go into the usual likely school, affordable school rant I do, because Iâm sure you get it.
I also think youâve already seen it, but there is a thread in the Forum listing top alumni network schools Some good choices there.
I like UDenver, Dickinson, Colorado College. Santa Clara gets a lot of good feedback. DePaul, Marquette also. Lafayette, Bucknell, Lehigh also some excellent choices. A lot of Western Penn and Ohio schools that are good picks.